Learning to Dance with the Waves

Learning to Dance with the Waves featured image showing a small boat sailing through ocean waves, symbolizing resilience and hope by Nihshabd.

Life comes in waves.

Which explains why
just when you’ve convinced yourself

“I’ve finally figured life out…

…the sea quietly laughs.

And sends another wave.

Some arrive
with flowers in their hands.

Others don’t even knock.

They simply barge in,
rearrange your plans,
borrow your peace,
and leave without saying goodbye.

Rude, honestly.

For the longest time,
I thought the secret
was finding calm waters.

Then life smiled and said,

“No, dear…

the trick is learning
not to spill your coffee
every time the boat rocks.”

So you learn.

You stop arguing
with every wave.

You stop asking,

“Why me?”

Because, quite frankly,

the sea has terrible customer service.

It never answers.

Instead,

it teaches.

It teaches that
not every delay
is a disaster.

Not every goodbye
is a punishment.

Not every storm
has your name on it.

Some are simply
passing through.

And somewhere
between holding on
and letting go,

you discover
that you were never
becoming fearless.

You were simply
becoming someone

who could smile,

fix the sail,

and whisper,

“Well…
that was interesting.”

before rowing on.

Because life
has never promised
a sea without waves.

Only the chance
to become
someone who knows

how to dance with them.🦋

🌊

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Until the next whisper…
—Rajeshwari 🧿💕

© Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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If this whisper stayed with you, you may also enjoy reading The Hard Years: Not the Final Chapter

Comments

24 responses to “Learning to Dance with the Waves”

  1. gdutta17 Avatar

    WOW….This is so beautiful. Yes…life is queer, with its twists and turns. It takes a lifetime, yet cannot be fathomed. One can only manage to keep afloat in the best possible way. Loved your poem…👏👏👏😊

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🥹🤍You’re absolutely right perhaps life isn’t meant to be fully understood, only lived. I’m so glad the poem resonated with you. 🦋✨

  2. vermavkv Avatar

    What a beautifully written and wonderfully relatable reflection on the waves of life! 🌊 I loved the gentle humour woven through such profound wisdom—especially the sea’s “terrible customer service” and the reminder not to spill our coffee every time the boat rocks. 😊

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Verma ji! 🥹🤍I’m so happy you enjoyed both the humour and the heart behind it. If it brought a smile while reminding us to stay afloat, then it did exactly what I hoped. 🦋✨🌊

      1. vermavkv Avatar

        My pleasure, dear friend! 🤍🙏 You certainly achieved what you set out to do. The humour made me smile, while the deeper message reminded me that staying afloat is sometimes the greatest victory. 🌊 Life may keep sending waves, but a little courage, humour, and hope can help us ride them with grace

  3. winningsetbacks Avatar

    Agreed totally with you . I can reframe it that we are like cars but with out shock absorber but the wise ones quickly star adding the shock absorbers to withstand Gallup’s especially in the desert and bumpy roads… just exercising my brain.
    Thanks

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you! 🤍I absolutely love that analogy. Life may not come with built-in shock absorbers, but wisdom teaches us how to create them along the way. Thanks for sharing your beautiful thought it truly added to the conversation. 🦋✨

  4. Aptivi Avatar

    This is a very beautiful poem, Rajeshwari! I loved how the words flow. 👍

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🥹🤍That truly means a lot to me. I’m so happy you enjoyed the flow of the poem. Your encouragement is deeply appreciated. 🦋✨

      1. Aptivi Avatar

        You’re most welcome, Rajeshwari! ☺️💜 Of course, I did! 🌟

  5. SRIKANTH Avatar

    What a beautiful and wise reminder, Rajeshwari! I especially love the part about learning not to spill your coffee—it’s such a relatable, grounding truth amidst all the big philosophical waves. And the humor about the sea having “terrible customer service” made me smile.

    The blue butterfly and the wave feel like the perfect visuals for your words: transformation, lightness, and the ability to ride the current rather than fight it. Thank you for sharing this poetic nudge to find our smiles amidst the chaos. Until the next whisper! 🌊🦋

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Srikanth ji for this incredibly thoughtful reflection. 🥹🤍 It means the world to me that you connected with both the smiles and the stillness I hoped to share. Your words about the butterfly and the wave are simply beautiful. Thank you for reading with such warmth and generosity. 🌊🦋✨

  6. moragnoffke Avatar

    So true, thank you. I was always in search of peace and calm until I realized that the satisfaction of life is living it well through the storms and chaos 💟✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      What a beautiful realization. 🥹🤍 I couldn’t agree more perhaps peace isn’t the absence of storms, but the quiet strength we discover while walking through them. Thank you for sharing such a heartfelt thought. 🦋✨

      1. moragnoffke Avatar

        ❤️👍❤️

  7. samaysakshi Avatar

    Very nicely written, I remember lines from a famous poem-

    वह पथ क्या pathik कुशलता क्या
    यदि पथ में बिखरे शूल न हों
    मांझी की कार्य दक्षता क्या
    यदि धाराएं प्रतिकूल न हों

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍Those beautiful lines fit the theme perfectly. They remind us that strength isn’t found in calm waters, but in learning to dance with the waves. 🌊🙏🦋

  8. daneelyunus Avatar

    Beautifully written 👏

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Daneel ji! 🤍🦋✨

      1. daneelyunus Avatar

        Most welcome 😊

  9. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    Rajeshwari ji, this is such a graceful reminder that the art of living is not about waiting for the sea to become still, but learning how to remain steady when it isn’t. I especially loved the thought that we need not become fearless we simply need to become wiser at holding the sail, accepting the wave, and continuing the journey with a quiet smile.

    Some waves come to break our plans; others come to reshape our perspective. Perhaps that is life’s quiet wisdom: we don’t always control the waters, but we can learn the art of sailing.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Vijay ji for this beautiful reflection. 🥹🤍 You understood the heart of the post so perfectly. Your line about some waves reshaping our perspective is simply beautiful. I’m truly grateful you took the time to share such thoughtful words. 🌊🦋✨

  10. Glowith – Glow Every Day, Grow Every Way Avatar

    Every wave teaches something. Beautiful post. 🌊

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Maha 🌊❤️ Every wave truly does carry a lesson—some teach us to stay afloat, others teach us to let go. I’m so glad the post resonated with you. 🙏🦋✨

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