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  • Things I Found Without Looking ♥️

    Things I Found Without Looking ♥️

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s the best thing you’ve ever found randomly on the street?

    I have never been very good at finding things, but some of the best things I found were the ones I wasn’t looking for.

    Ask me where I kept my phone, and I will conduct a full-scale investigation involving three rooms, two cushions and one innocent family member.

    But strangely enough, life has occasionally put things in my path when I wasn’t looking for anything at all.

    Some were tiny.

    Some were mysterious.

    And at least one made me question whether I had accidentally walked into somebody else’s unfinished story.

    A Stranger’s Smile

    It happened on a day when I was not particularly interested in being a person.

    You know those days.

    You are walking somewhere, thinking about seventeen things, mildly irritated by the eighteenth, and your face has already resigned from customer service.

    Then a stranger walking towards me smiled.

    Not the polite, “I know you, don’t I?” smile.

    A proper, uncomplicated smile.

    itI smiled back.

    And then we both continued walking.

    That’s the whole story.

    Which is rather annoying, because now I have to admit that one second of kindness worked better than whatever complicated solution I had been constructing inside my head.

    The Note Meant for Someone Else

    This one was more suspicious.

    I found a handwritten note on a bench.

    No name.

    No envelope.

    Just a few words:

    “You’re doing better than you think.”

    Naturally, my first thought was:

    Well, that’s oddly specific.

    I looked around.

    Nobody was running back dramatically to claim it.

    So I sat there for a while, wondering who had written it and who had lost it.

    Maybe it was meant for a friend.

    Maybe a daughter.

    Maybe someone having a terrible week.

    Or perhaps—just perhaps—it had been abandoned by the only person who needed to read it.

    I took a picture of it.

    I didn’t take the note.

    I had my limits.

    I may be sentimental, but I am not a stationery thief.

    The Old Photograph

    The photograph was old enough to have a life before mine.

    Two people stood in it, smiling at the camera with the effortless confidence of people who had no idea they were about to become strangers in someone’s pocket.

    I stared at them.

    And then, because apparently my brain has no respect for boundaries, I started making up their lives.

    Were they siblings?

    Newly married?

    Best friends?

    Was that trip their happiest memory—or simply the afternoon when someone happened to have a camera?

    I had absolutely no evidence for any of my theories.

    But I had already given them personalities.

    This is the danger of finding photographs belonging to strangers.

    You don’t just find a picture.

    You find yourself writing a sequel to a story you were never invited into.

    The Key Without a Lock

    An old key is a wonderfully unhelpful thing to find.

    Because a coin tells you what it is.

    A key gives you a question.

    I found one lying on the roadside, and naturally spent the next ten minutes imagining what it belonged to.

    A house?

    A cupboard?

    A drawer?

    A secret diary belonging to someone with much more interesting problems than mine?

    There was, of course, no way of knowing.

    The key had clearly retired.

    But it had not resigned from being mysterious.

    I kept thinking about it long after I walked away.

    Somewhere, perhaps, there was a lock that was having an equally confusing day.

    A Child’s Ribbon

    A little ribbon near a school gate once caught my attention.

    Pink, slightly crumpled, with one tiny flower still holding on to it.

    I picked it up and put it on the nearby wall, thinking whoever had lost it might come looking.

    A few minutes later, a little girl came running back.

    She checked the ground, looked under the bench and then suddenly spotted it.

    Her face lit up.

    She dusted it against her dress and tied it back into her hair crookedly, proudly, and without the slightest concern for symmetry.

    I watched her run away smiling.

    Perhaps children lose things easily, but they also know exactly which things matter.

    The Unsent Letter

    I once found an envelope on the street.

    Sealed.

    That was the problem.

    An open letter gives you information.

    A sealed one gives you imagination—and imagination is a terrible thing to hand unsupervised.

    I wondered what was inside.

    A love letter?

    An apology?

    A goodbye?

    A furious paragraph beginning with “I don’t usually do this, but…”?

    I will never know.

    And I didn’t open it.

    Some curiosity deserves to remain curiosity.

    Besides, if the letter was dramatic enough, I was already providing enough drama for it in my head.

    Things I Found on a Street That Has Seen Everything

    Perhaps the most interesting thing about a street is that it never tells us what it has seen.

    It has probably watched a crying child persuade his father into buying that balloon.

    An old woman, thrown out of her own home by the children she once lived only to give to, wondering how she will manage tomorrow.

    A woman who knew how to give, now reluctantly learning how to ask.

    It has watched love stories begin, making even ordinary evenings feel a little more colourful.

    It has watched sons and daughters leave home with bags in their hands and entire futures in their heads, pretending to be brave while someone behind them tries very hard not to cry.

    It has seen people fall.

    And others stop to lift them.

    Goodbyes, celebrations, arguments, laughter, loneliness—and probably more stories than any of us could count.

    The street remembers none of their names.

    It simply watches.

    Day after day.

    Year after year.

    And sometimes I wonder—

    if a street could talk, how many stories would it tell us?

    I have a feeling we’d never get to the end.

    And Then I Found Myself 🦋

    This is the part I didn’t expect.

    Because when I look back at all these things, I realise none of them was really valuable.

    A smile.

    A scrap of paper.

    A photograph.

    A useless key.

    A child’s ribbon.

    An unopened letter.

    A street full of stories.

    None of these things could be put in a display cabinet and labelled My Greatest Discoveries.

    But each one made me stop.

    And perhaps that is what I had lost somewhere along the way—the habit of stopping.

    Of looking.

    Of wondering.

    Of letting an ordinary thing interrupt an otherwise perfectly scheduled day.

    Maybe I didn’t find myself on the street.

    Maybe I simply found the girl who used to notice things.

    And, thankfully, she hadn’t gone very far.

    She was apparently just waiting for me to stop rushing past her.

    And now I’m wondering something else.

    Maybe the interesting question isn’t “What is the best thing you’ve ever found on the street?”

    Maybe it’s:

    What is the most unexpected thing you found when you weren’t looking for anything at all?

    A person? A memory? A little piece of luck? Or perhaps… something that changed the way you saw an ordinary day?

    Tell me. I’m genuinely curious about this one. 🤍

    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • The Kindness We Carry

    The Kindness We Carry

    What’s the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?

    What’s the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?

    Oh, that’s a dangerous question.

    Because how do you choose one moment from a lifetime of little moments that quietly held you together? 😄

    And honestly, my memory has suddenly decided to behave like an old cupboard—everything is in there, but finding the right thing may take some time.

    When I think of kindness, I don’t think only of grand gestures.

    I think of the person who knew I had made a mistake, but chose kindness over an “I told you so.”

    The parent who was disappointed, perhaps, but still made sure I knew I was loved.

    The friend who listened to the same worry again and again—not because they had a new solution, but because they knew I needed someone to listen.

    The teacher who saw a little more in me than I could see in myself.

    The person who stayed beside me when I was busy doubting everything—including myself.

    Sometimes, they didn’t even say much.

    Just a quiet, “You’ll figure it out.”

    And somehow, you did.

    The Kindness That Stays

    Then there are those tiny moments that last far longer than they should.

    You slip, and before embarrassment can even arrive, a hand is already there.

    You’re getting drenched in the rain, and a stranger moves their umbrella a little closer so you can fit under it.

    You look tired, and someone you don’t know asks, “Would you like some water?”

    They don’t know your story.

    They don’t know your name.

    They simply saw another human being who needed a little kindness.

    The Mark Kindness Leaves

    And perhaps that is why the truly kind people stay with us.

    Not because of the magnitude of what they did, but because of what their kindness left behind.

    A little courage.

    A little warmth.

    A little faith in ourselves.

    And sometimes, a little more faith in people.

    There are people whose kindness has quietly become part of who we are.

    We may have forgotten the exact words.

    We may not even remember the date.

    But we remember how we felt standing next to them.

    Safe. Seen. Not alone.

    If we tried to write down every such moment, every person who softened a difficult day, every hand that reached out just in time, every voice that said the right thing when we needed it most…

    we would run out of pages before we ran out of kindness.

    Maybe that is the strange, beautiful thing about kindness.

    The giver may think it was just a moment.

    The receiver may carry it for years.

    And perhaps, without ever knowing it, some of us are already living inside a kindness someone gave us long ago.🦋

    And if there is someone whose kindness still lives quietly in your heart, perhaps today is a good day to remember them and tell us about them. ❤️

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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    © NihshabdThe Silent Stories That Speak to the Soul. All Rights Reserved. 

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  • Same Answer. Still. 😂

    Same Answer. Still. 😂

    If the salary was the same, what job would you be doing right now and why?

    If the salary was the same, what job would you be doing right now and why?

    Apparently, I have already answered this question once—many years ago.

    And guess what?

    Same answer. 😂

    I’d still be a homemaker.

    Not because I had some grand plan of becoming one. Life just… happened. I was working, I was happy working, and then I had children.

    And somehow, the idea of leaving them at home and going to work never sat quite right with me.

    Even with a nanny at home, there was this strange little voice in my head saying, “But you’re their mother. Shouldn’t you be here?”

    I tried negotiating with that voice.

    It won. Every. Single. Time. 😄

    Maybe I wasn’t as strong as I thought I should be. Maybe I should have been more practical, more ambitious, more “I can have it all!”

    Well… apparently I couldn’t.

    Or perhaps I simply didn’t want to.

    Because while I sometimes wonder what my career would look like today, I have absolutely no regrets about the life I chose.

    I was happy when I worked.

    I am ridiculously, embarrassingly, wonderfully happy being a homemaker now.

    So, if the salary was the same?

    I’d still choose this job.

    Although I’d definitely ask for a salary revision this time.

    The cost of living has gone up. The children have grown up. And my unpaid overtime is getting ridiculous. 😂

    What about you? If money wasn’t a factor, would you still choose the life you’re living—or would you finally follow that random dream you’ve been secretly entertaining? 😄

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • I Think I’ve Been Collecting Hobbies 😄

    I Think I’ve Been Collecting Hobbies 😄

    Daily writing prompt
    Share a hobby you’ve picked up recently — what got you into it?

    The Hobby I Didn’t Know I Had

    I’ve never really been good at having just one hobby.

    I like learning things.

    New things. Random things. Sometimes useful things. Sometimes things I have absolutely no practical reason to learn. 😄

    Over the years, I’ve tried illustration, 3D illustration, drawing on Procreate, painting, glass painting, crocheting, embroidery, music, and trying new recipes. I’ve made quite a few things along the way too.

    Some stayed for a while, some were quietly replaced by something new, and a few are probably still sitting somewhere, waiting for me to remember them. 😄

    So sometimes I wonder—do I actually have too many hobbies, or is my real hobby simply learning something new?

    Maybe it’s just curiosity. I like being a beginner, figuring things out, making mistakes, and seeing what I can create.

    And then there is writing.

    The Hobby That Found Its Way Back

    I started writing again last December.

    But writing has actually been a part of me since childhood. I loved making up stories. My mind would create a new one almost every day.

    I could look at the stars and imagine stories hidden among them, watch clouds drifting across the sky and wonder where they were going, or follow butterflies in my imagination to some faraway place. Even rainy days had their own magic. I would sit listening to the raindrops and somehow, new words would find their way into my thoughts.

    I never really thought of writing as a hobby back then.

    It was simply something I loved doing.

    When Writing Went Quiet

    As life became busier, writing slowly became less and less a part of my everyday life. There was always something else that needed my attention, and without even realising it, I drifted away from it.

    I did try to find my way back once. I started a travel blog because I have always loved travelling, discovering new places, and learning about them. I loved collecting little stories from different places and putting them into words.

    But that too slowly got lost in the busyness of life.

    Until last December.

    There was no big plan. Just a quiet voice inside me saying,

    You should write again.

    And this time, I listened.

    I created an account on WordPress. Honestly, I wasn’t even sure if I could still write. It had been a while, and I wondered if the words would come.

    So I started.

    One thought became a few words, a few words became a paragraph, and slowly, writing found its way back into my everyday life.

    The funny thing is, I thought I had lost that part of myself.

    I hadn’t.

    I had simply stopped listening to it.

    Maybe Curiosity Is My Real Hobby

    Looking at all the things I’ve tried over the years, I think there is a pattern.

    I simply like learning.

    I don’t necessarily need to become an expert. Sometimes I just want to know, Can I do this?

    And then I try.

    Some things stay. Some don’t. Some get forgotten and come back years later.

    Writing did.

    And now, my next plan is to learn the guitar. 🎸

    I have no idea how that will go, but I’m curious enough to find out.

    I don’t want to reach the end of my life saying, “I always wanted to try that.”

    I’d rather say, “I tried.”

    Even if I wasn’t very good at it.

    There is only one life. I want to keep learning, keep creating, and keep following that little voice that says, Why not?

    And perhaps the most beautiful part of this journey has been seeing where those words have travelled.

    I started writing again without knowing where it would take me.

    Today, when I look at this map and see readers from so many different parts of the world, I have to smile.

    I guess my words decided to travel even when I wasn’t. 🌍

    Maybe that’s what happens when you make room for something you love again. You never quite know where it might take you.

    Now it’s your turn. What’s your hobby? Have you picked up something new recently, or is there an old hobby waiting for you to return to it? What got you into it? I’d love to hear your story.

    Until The Next Whisper,

    Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Apparently, My Life Forgot to Follow a Plot 🤭📖

    Apparently, My Life Forgot to Follow a Plot 🤭📖

    What’s a book you never finished but still think about?

    The Book I Never Finished… Because I’m Still Living It 🤭📖

    What’s a book you never finished but still think about? 🤔📖

    Well… my life. 🤭😂

    Because apparently, I picked up a book and the author decided to throw every possible genre, emotion, character and plot twist into it.

    One chapter I’m laughing like I’ve completely lost it.
    The next, I’m crying so hard even my tears are asking for a day off. 😭😂

    There’s happiness. There’s heartbreak.
    Love, anger, excitement, fear, frustration, jealousy, hope, confusion, peace, chaos, exhaustion, loneliness… basically, the entire human-emotion department is working overtime. 😂

    Some days I’m full of confidence, ready to conquer the world.

    Other days, I’m like, “Can everyone please leave me alone? I’m busy doing absolutely nothing.” 😌

    There’s comedy, there’s tragedy, there’s romance, there’s mystery…

    And then there are the plot twists.

    Friends becoming enemies.
    Strangers becoming important.
    A shaatir haseena making an appearance.
    A maa ka laadla entering the scene.
    And somewhere in the story, a perfectly normal wife apparently gets promoted to shakki biwi. 👀🤣

    Seriously, who needs fiction when my life is already writing its own screenplay?

    And the funniest part?

    I don’t even know what happens next. 😂

    I started this book, but I have no idea how many chapters are left. There’s no table of contents, no spoilers, and definitely no option to sneak a peek at the last page.

    Just like any good story, I wake up every morning wondering what the next chapter is going to bring.

    Will it be a quiet little chapter?

    A happy one?

    A completely unexpected adventure?

    Or will life casually walk in, throw something completely unplanned at me, and wait for my reaction?

    At this point, I’ve stopped asking “Why me?”

    I’ve upgraded to:

    “Okay… interesting. What happens next?” 😂

    Because just when I think I’ve finally figured out the storyline, life seems to turn another page before I’m ready.

    Maybe there’s a new adventure waiting.

    Maybe an old character suddenly walks back into the story.

    Maybe I discover something I never knew I could do.

    Or maybe tomorrow is just going to be gloriously ordinary—and honestly, I’ll take that too. 😁

    Who knows?

    That’s the fun of an unfinished book.

    I’ve read so many pages already—some I’d happily revisit, some I’d rather skip, and some I’m still trying to understand. 😂

    But the last page?

    Not yet.

    I’m still reading it.
    Still living it.
    Still turning the pages.

    And honestly, I have no idea how it ends.

    But I can promise you one thing—

    the book may be unfinished, but it is definitely not boring. 🤭📖😂

    Now I’m curious… what’s yours? 👀

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    Until The Next Whisper, 

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Okay, Berk. Where Do I Sign Up? 🐉 

    Okay, Berk. Where Do I Sign Up? 🐉 

    Which fictional world would be the most fun to vacation in?

    Take Me to Berk. I Have a Dragon to Catch. 🐉😂

    If I could vacation in any fictional world, I think I’d pick Berk from How to Train Your Dragon.

    Because… DRAGONS.

    Imagine having one waiting outside your house and knowing that instead of getting into a car, you can just climb on and fly away.

    Where?

    No idea.

    That’s the best part. 😂

    Maybe over the mountains. Maybe across the sea. Maybe somewhere I’ve never even heard of.

    I’d probably keep saying, “Let’s just go a little further.”

    And then a little further.

    And then, somehow, we’d be on the other side of the world.

    I’d want to fly when it’s windy, fly when it’s raining, fly through the clouds, race another dragon, find ridiculous little islands and watch the world from above.

    And yes, I’d absolutely name my dragon something dramatic and then spend half my vacation talking to it as if it understands every word.

    Actually… it probably would.

    It’s a dragon. 😂

    The thought of being able to simply take off whenever I feel like it sounds ridiculously exciting to me.

    No traffic. No tickets. No packing half your house for a trip.

    Just you, your dragon and a whole world underneath you.

    Okay, Berk. Where do I sign up? 🐉

    So, what’s your fictional escape plan? And please make it interesting—I want to steal some ideas. 😂

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Historical Event? History Can Wait. My Coffee Can’t. ☕

    Historical Event? History Can Wait. My Coffee Can’t. ☕

    If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?

    Daily writing prompt
    If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?

    After thinking about today’s prompt way too seriously, I think I’ve finally found my answer. 😂

    “If you could go back and witness any historical event, which one would you pick?”

    At first, I thought witnessing some great historical moment would be fascinating. 🦋

    Then I thought—maybe I should go all the way back and witness the beginning of the universe. 🌌✨

    Then I wondered what women were actually doing throughout all those historical eras. Were they also just managing homes, raising children, cooking, and somehow keeping everything running while men were busy making “history”? 🧐

    Then I imagined myself actually going back.

    Wars. Crowds. Long journeys. No electricity. No Wi-Fi. No comfortable bed. And absolutely no coffee machine. 😳

    And then I had a very important realization—

    Why exactly am I doing this to myself? 😂

    I’m perfectly happy right here.

    At home.

    With my coffee.

    Let history happen wherever it wants to happen. Let kings conquer, explorers explore, scientists discover, and everyone else make history.

    I’ll happily read about it from the comfort of my sofa. 😁

    Because some historical events are much more enjoyable when you’re not actually there.

    So, time machine…

    Cancel my booking.

    My coffee is still warm. ☕😂

    Now I’d love to hear your answer. What historical event would you choose? Or, better yet, join me for a coffee—we’ll talk about history, life, and probably a hundred other things along the way. ☕😊

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Why Does the Butterfly Keep Finding Me? 🦋

    Why Does the Butterfly Keep Finding Me? 🦋

    Daily writing prompt
    If you had to get a tattoo right now, what would it be and why?

    If I had to get a tattoo right now, it would be a butterfly. 🦋

    Not because I have always loved butterflies.

    Actually, I’m not even sure when this started.

    People sometimes notice the butterfly on my bracelet.

    Then they notice another one on my mangalsutra.

    And then there is that little 🦋 I keep using on my blog, in my posts, almost everywhere.

    And that’s when they ask me—

    “Why are you so obsessed with butterflies?”

    The funny thing is…

    I don’t know.

    I really don’t.

    I never consciously chose the butterfly.

    It somehow kept finding its way into my life.

    Once, I even named a brand Titliyan with a few friends.

    I don’t remember why I chose that name either.

    I eventually had to leave it behind for personal reasons.

    What I See in a Butterfly

    Funny, isn’t it?

    The name disappeared.

    But the butterfly didn’t.

    And maybe that’s when I started wondering whether there was something about this little creature that I was drawn to without even knowing why.

    Because when I look at a butterfly, I don’t just see something pretty.

    I see something I recognise.

    Maybe it’s because I’ve always been someone who notices people.

    Not just how they look.

    What they carry.

    The person who makes everyone laugh but is quietly going through something.

    The woman who thinks she is ordinary but has an incredible strength.

    Someone who doesn’t realise how kind they are.

    Someone who has no idea that their presence makes a difference to other people.

    I notice those things.

    Maybe that’s why butterflies fascinate me.

    Because a butterfly has absolutely no idea what we see.

    She doesn’t know that someone might stop walking just to watch her.

    She doesn’t know that her wings can make an ordinary afternoon beautiful.

    She doesn’t know she’s beautiful.

    She just is.

    Maybe That’s Why I Love Her

    And perhaps people are like that too.

    Sometimes, we spend years trying to become something better, prettier, stronger, more successful…

    while the people around us can already see something wonderful in us that we haven’t noticed yet.

    And yes, I believe in the whole butterfly story too.

    The caterpillar.

    The cocoon.

    The uncertainty.

    The struggle.

    The transformation.

    The wings.

    But what touches me isn’t only that she changes.

    It’s that she becomes something beautiful without ever knowing how beautiful she has become.

    Maybe that’s the part I understand.

    Maybe that’s the part I love.

    Or maybe…

    I’m simply a woman who has collected too many butterflies over the years and is now trying to find a philosophical explanation for it. 😂

    But if I ever get that tattoo, it won’t be because a butterfly has one fixed meaning.

    It will be because, somehow, it has become a little piece of my story.

    A reminder to notice beauty.

    In people.

    In life.

    And perhaps, sometimes, in myself.

    A reminder that I don’t have to know exactly where life is taking me.

    A reminder that some of the most beautiful things about us may be things we haven’t discovered yet.

    And perhaps, most importantly—

    a reminder to keep my wings open, even when I don’t know where I’m going to fly.

    So yes.

    If I had to get a tattoo right now…

    it would be a butterfly.

    Maybe I’ve been choosing her all these years.

    Or maybe…

    she’s been choosing me. 🦋

    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Finding Myself Again: My Significant Other Was Me | Nihshabd

    Finding Myself Again: My Significant Other Was Me | Nihshabd

    Daily writing prompt
    How did you meet your significant other?

    My Significant Other Was Me ✨

    Finding myself again was never a planned journey. For years, I was busy being everything everyone needed me to be—a daughter, a wife, a mother, and a woman who always put others first. Somewhere between responsibilities and expectations, I forgot a small but important part of myself. Until one day, I finally met the person I had been searching for all along—me.

    They asked me,
    “How did you meet your significant other?”

    I smiled.

    Because my answer is a little unexpected.

    I didn’t meet her at a café.
    I didn’t find her in a crowd.
    I didn’t recognise her in a first glance.

    I met her after years of searching.

    She was there all along.

    Hidden behind the woman who was always busy taking care of everyone else.

    The daughter who learned to adjust.

    The wife who tried to create a happy home.

    The mother who remembered everyone’s needs before her own.

    The woman who knew exactly how everyone liked their tea,
    what made everyone happy,
    and what everyone needed…

    But sometimes forgot to ask herself—

    “What do I need?”

    She was always there.

    But somewhere between responsibilities and expectations,
    her voice became softer.

    Her dreams waited patiently in a corner.

    Her hobbies waited for “someday.”

    Her wishes waited for “after everyone is settled.”

    And she kept telling herself—

    “Later.”

    Until one day, she stopped.

    Not because the world changed.

    But because she did.

    She picked up the book she had left unfinished.

    She listened to the song she loved.

    She created something just because it made her happy.

    She sat quietly without feeling guilty.

    And slowly…

    she heard her own voice again.

    The woman she had lost in the noise of everyday life
    was finding her way back.

    She was not selfish.

    She was not changing.

    She was simply returning home.

    To herself.

    So, how did I meet my significant other?

    I met her in the mirror after years of looking everywhere else.

    She was older.

    She was wiser.

    She had scars, stories, and a thousand silent battles behind her smile.

    But she was beautiful.

    Because she was finally free to be herself.

    My significant other was never someone I had to find.

    She was the woman I had been carrying inside me all along.

    And today…

    I choose her.

    Every single day. ❤️

    until the next whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • Varalakshmi Vratam: Tradition on a Plate 🌸

    Varalakshmi Vratam: Tradition on a Plate 🌸

    What’s a cultural tradition from your country that you love?

    If you ask me about a cultural tradition from India that I love, I honestly wouldn’t know where to begin.

    India is practically a treasure chest of traditions. Open one drawer and you’ll find festivals. Open another and there’s a puja. Then come the flowers, mehendi, pattu sarees, family gatherings, elaborate feasts, banana leaves, sweets, prayers—and enough food to make you wonder whether we came to pray or attend a royal banquet. 😄

    One tradition very close to my heart is Varalakshmi Vratam, which I celebrate with my family.

    There is something beautiful about getting ready for it. I wear a traditional pattu saree, decorate with flowers, prepare for the pooja, and slowly the house begins to feel different. More festive. More alive. More… Indian.

    But my favourite part of this tradition comes with a little story.

    The first time I performed Varalakshmi Vratam after my marriage, my mother-in-law lovingly prepared 11 different kinds of naivedyam for Lakshmi Maa.

    She was so happy doing it, and I simply assumed, Okay, this is how it is done.

    The following year, however, my mother-in-law was visiting the US and spending some time there.

    And suddenly, I had an extremely important question.

    “How many naivedyams am I supposed to make—9 or 11?”

    So, naturally, I called my mother.

    Her response?

    “That is between you and your in-laws. Don’t involve me.” 😂

    Thank you, Mumma. Very helpful.

    It was nighttime in the US, so I couldn’t call my mother-in-law either.

    And there I was—standing in the kitchen, facing a serious spiritual dilemma.

    Nine?

    Eleven?

    Apparently, divine blessings come with a little bit of mathematical uncertainty too. 😁

    Finally, I decided to play safe.

    I made 11.

    Later, I discovered that the first year had 11 because it was my first Varalakshmi Vratam, and the following years were supposed to have 9.

    Oops.

    But by then, it was too late.

    The mistake had already become a tradition.

    And now?

    I still make 11.

    At this point, I have decided that if Lakshmi Maa has been happily accepting 11 all these years, I am not going to be the one questioning the arrangement. 😂

    And then comes my favourite part—the feast.

    Every year, after the pooja, we serve the meal traditionally on a banana leaf.

    And this is where the entire family suddenly develops extraordinary patience.

    Everyone waits.

    Quietly.

    Politely.

    Respectfully.

    Until the bhog is offered.

    And the moment the food is blessed, the transformation is remarkable.

    The same people who were patiently waiting a few minutes ago suddenly become extremely efficient.

    One by one, things begin disappearing from the banana leaf.

    A little rice vanishes.

    Then the curry.

    Then the sweet.

    Then something else that I was quite sure I had just served.

    And before I know it, the beautifully arranged feast has become a very convincing piece of evidence that good food should never be left unattended. 😄

    But beyond the sarees, flowers, mehendi, pooja and food, what I truly love about this tradition is the togetherness.

    It brings everyone into the same space.

    We dress up.

    We pray.

    We laugh.

    We eat together.

    We wait for the bhog.

    We tell old stories.

    And somehow, in the middle of all these rituals, ordinary moments become memories.

    Perhaps that is what I love most about Indian traditions.

    They are not merely rituals passed down through generations.
    They are little threads that quietly connect one generation to another—
    from a mother teaching her daughter,
    a mother-in-law welcoming a new daughter into an old tradition,
    to children growing up watching these rituals and someday carrying a few of them forward in their own way.

    Somewhere along the way, a saree, a flower, a prayer, a recipe, or a meal served on a banana leaf becomes more than a tradition.
    It becomes a memory.
    And then, without us even realising it, the memory becomes part of who we are.

    And perhaps that is why I still make eleven.
    Not because I forgot the correct number…
    but because, after all these years, those eleven offerings have become a little piece of my own story. ❤️

    Traditions are not just rituals; they are memories wrapped in love, passed from one generation to another. 🦋🌸
    I would love to hear your story too…
    What’s a cultural tradition from your country that you deeply love?

    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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