Morning Routine: Between To-Do Lists and Little Joys | Nihshabd

Between To-Do Lists and Little Joys – a peaceful morning of wellness, creativity and everyday happiness

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My Morning Routine: A Little Bit of Everything, and a Little Bit of Me

My morning routine doesn’t come with a snooze button for responsibilities. Monday or Sunday, the day begins, and apparently, the universe expects me to show up. 😂

But somewhere between the sunrise and my first cup of coffee, I often catch myself doing something wonderfully unproductive: simply enjoying the moment.

The sky turns beautiful, the morning light sneaks through the window, and for a few minutes, the world seems to have nowhere urgent to be. If it rains, the little girl inside me wants to fold a paper boat and set it sailing. No deadlines, no destinations, just a boat, a puddle and an imagination that doesn’t need Wi-Fi.

Of course, I am also an adult. So the paper boat has to compete with a rather impressive list of responsibilities. Childhood was so much simpler. We could spend an entire afternoon making a boat out of paper. Now we need to schedule the nostalgia! 😄

Healthy Morning Habits: Taking Care of Myself

My morning routine also includes a little exercise and my homemade wellness potion: ajwain, jeera, saunf, methi, black pepper, ginger and lemon, all boiled together. It’s my way of reminding myself that looking after my health cannot always be postponed until a more convenient day.

We make time for so many things and people; surely, our own well-being deserves a place on that list, too.

This is something my mother-in-law taught me, and it’s a lesson I’ve come to value more with time: taking care of ourselves shouldn’t always come last. ❤️

Then there’s my creative mind, which apparently has no concept of office hours. A thought for a blog post pops up while I’m doing something else. I rush to note it down before it disappears into the mysterious black hole where forgotten ideas live. An illustration starts taking shape in my head, and somewhere in between, a very practical question interrupts the artist in me: What on earth am I cooking today?

Creativity is wonderful, but apparently, it doesn’t exempt anyone from deciding what’s for lunch. 😂

Finding Peace in My Morning Routine

After the school rush and seeing my husband off to work, I finally get a little time for myself. Pooja, meditation, and a few moments of quiet. No elaborate plans to transform my life before breakfast. Just a little pause to breathe, gather my thoughts and feel grounded before the day unfolds.

I’ve come to appreciate these little rituals. Exercise reminds me to care for my body. Meditation gives my mind room to breathe. Writing and illustration allow me to explore the thoughts and ideas that make me feel like myself. And those quiet moments in between remind me that I am more than the things I do for everyone else.

Perhaps that’s the secret I’ve been discovering in my ordinary mornings: a full life doesn’t have to mean a life lived in a hurry.

Finding Joy in Everyday Life

We often imagine that happiness will arrive when the work is finished, the house is in order, the responsibilities are taken care of and we finally have some free time.

But have you noticed how the to-do list seems to reproduce when nobody is watching? Finish one task, and two more appear. It’s practically performing mitosis! 🤣

If we keep waiting for everything to be done before we allow ourselves to enjoy life, we might spend a very long time waiting.

My morning routine reminds me to find little pockets of happiness right in the middle of everyday life. To notice a beautiful sunrise even when the day is busy. To follow a creative thought instead of dismissing it as something I can do later. To make room for healthy habits, quiet moments and the occasional ridiculous idea involving a paper boat.

Because life isn’t happening after the responsibilities are over. It’s happening while we’re living through them.

And maybe we don’t need a completely different life to feel happier. Maybe we need to pay a little more attention to the life we already have.

Maybe a beautiful life isn’t one where we have nothing to do. Maybe it’s one where, amid everything we have to do, we still find things that make us feel alive.

And tomorrow morning, if you happen to see a paper boat floating in a puddle, don’t judge the adult who made it.

She might simply have remembered how to be happy without a reason. ☀️❤️

❤️ A Little Question for You 🦋

What makes your mornings special? Is it that first cup of coffee, a quiet moment to yourself, the sunrise outside your window, or something entirely unexpected?

Tell me in the comments. I’d love to know about the little things that make your ordinary days beautiful.

And if this post reminded you to slow down and enjoy life’s little moments, share it with someone who might need that reminder, too.

Until The Next Whisper,

—Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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31 responses to “Morning Routine: Between To-Do Lists and Little Joys | Nihshabd”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    The joy mostly happens in the flow of work, not in the finished product. Wonderful thoughts, Rajeshwari.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      So true, Hazel 🤍 Sometimes the journey itself gives us more happiness than the destination. We just need to slow down and enjoy the little moments along the way. 🦋✨

  2. Nicholas K F Matte Avatar

    Nice! The paper boat symbol makes me think of origami wing beating cranes I once made for a pen-pal in Montreal. Very great read!

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      That’s such a beautiful memory 🤍 There’s something special about handmade things they carry a little piece of our heart wherever they go. 🦋✨

  3. sriwrites Avatar

    Felt this so much. Beautiful post, Rajeshwari

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much 🤍 Glad you could relate. Sometimes we’re all sailing in the same boat. 🦋✨

  4. Hug in a bite Avatar

    Nice! I love the part about the to-do list going through mitosis 😂

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Hehe, my to-do list is more productive at multiplying than I am at finishing things🤣

      1. Hug in a bite Avatar

        🤣🤣🤣

  5. SRIKANTH Avatar

    Such a beautiful reminder, Rajeshwari! I love how you find magic in ordinary mornings—especially that paper boat. Your words made me pause and appreciate my own little rituals. ❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much, Srikanth ji 🤍 Sometimes, the little things we barely notice are the ones that make life beautiful. So glad my words connected with you. 😊🌸🦋✨

      1. SRIKANTH Avatar

        🌹🤝

  6. victor matimba mavasa Avatar

    I’m still stressing on what can I do today

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Haha, don’t stress 🤍 Sometimes doing nothing is also a plan. 😂🦋✨

  7. Kevin James Wholley Avatar
    Kevin James Wholley

    You have a good routine. I start everyday quiet , by myself and coffee watching the city wake-up

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      That sounds lovely! A little coffee and quiet time is the best start to the day. ☕🤍

  8. vermavkv Avatar

    What a delightful and heartwarming reflection! ❤️ I love how you balance responsibilities, healthy habits, creativity, and those precious little moments of childhood wonder. The paper boat is such a beautiful reminder that happiness often lives in the simplest things. As you rightly say, life is happening while we attend to our responsibilities, not after they are finished. May your mornings always bring you peace, inspiration, and a little room for magic! ☀️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much, Verma ji 🤍 I truly believe that happiness often hides in the smallest moments. We get so caught up in our daily responsibilities that we sometimes forget to pause and enjoy them. A little time for ourselves and a little room for childhood memories can make even an ordinary morning feel special. 🌸🦋✨

  9. Velvet horizon Avatar

    Beautiful written 💕

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much 🦋✨

  10. Uma Dasila Avatar

    I loved the way you described finding little moments of happiness in the middle of everyday responsibilities. The paper boat especially brought back the simplicity of childhood. 😊 Life feels more beautiful when we stop waiting for everything to be perfect and learn to enjoy the little things along the way. ❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      So true, Uma 🤍 We often get so caught up in our daily routines that we forget to enjoy the little things. Sometimes, all it takes is a small moment to bring back that childlike joy. 🌸🦋✨

  11. Outrageous Monk Avatar

    A beautiful reflection to read today, Rajeshwari! Learning self-care wisdom from your mother-in-law through that traditional spice brew sounds like such a grounding ritual, and taking time for pooja and meditation after the morning rush sets such a peaceful tone. I really enjoyed Kevin James Wholley’s description of watching the city wake up with coffee. 😊

  12. Priti Avatar

    Good routine. Well shared 💐

  13. iamfoolz Avatar
    iamfoolz

    Haha, with all that going on in the morning, I hope you still find time to float that paper boat! 🤣

  14. Rupali Avatar

    A sound plan. May every day be as lovely as today.

  15. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    Absolutely beautiful and deeply meaningful, Rajeshwari ji! 🌹🙏 Through the simplicity of an ordinary morning, you have beautifully revealed an extraordinary truth about life. In the pursuit of fulfilling our responsibilities, we often forget how to truly live, overlooking the fact that life is not waiting for our to-do lists to end; it is unfolding in every moment we are busy living. ❤️

    Taking time for ourselves is not selfishness; it is an act of self-respect and an acknowledgment of our own existence. The image of the paper boat is especially touching. It is not merely a memory of childhood, but a symbol of the innocent joy we gradually leave behind as we grow older.

    True happiness does not demand perfect circumstances; it asks only that we remain receptive to the little gifts life offers us every day. When we learn to find joy in ordinary moments, life ceases to be a burden of responsibilities and becomes a celebration in itself.

    We do not always need to add something new to make life beautiful; sometimes, reconnecting with ourselves amid our daily busyness is enough.

    Kudos to your wonderful writing, Rajeshwari ji! You have offered much more than a morning routine you have shared a beautiful philosophy of living with mindfulness, simplicity, and joy.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Vijay ji for such thoughtful and heartfelt words 🤍 You’ve understood the essence of my writing so beautifully. Sometimes, we get so caught up in fulfilling our responsibilities that we forget to pause and enjoy the little things that once brought us so much happiness. Perhaps growing up is not about leaving those simple joys behind, but learning to make room for them even in the middle of our busy lives. 🌸🦋✨

  16. samaysakshi Avatar

    Great details, life is a journey, may be everyday we travel betwee the same

  17. samaysakshi Avatar

    two stations, but we can always make the journey different by our innovative efforts and childlike enthusiasm.

  18. Nusrat Khan Avatar

    To-do lists ऐसे multiply होती हे जैसे bacteria,पर आपकी बात सच हे इन्हीं कामों को करने में हमें सुकून भी मिलता हे और इन्ही में हमें अपने लिये भी वक्त निकालना.
    आप की कागज़ की कश्ती ने मुझे याद दिलाया
    मगर मुझको लौटा दो बचपन का सावन.

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