Tag: Personal reflection

  • Things I Found Without Looking ♥️

    Things I Found Without Looking ♥️

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s the best thing you’ve ever found randomly on the street?

    I have never been very good at finding things, but some of the best things I found were the ones I wasn’t looking for.

    Ask me where I kept my phone, and I will conduct a full-scale investigation involving three rooms, two cushions and one innocent family member.

    But strangely enough, life has occasionally put things in my path when I wasn’t looking for anything at all.

    Some were tiny.

    Some were mysterious.

    And at least one made me question whether I had accidentally walked into somebody else’s unfinished story.

    A Stranger’s Smile

    It happened on a day when I was not particularly interested in being a person.

    You know those days.

    You are walking somewhere, thinking about seventeen things, mildly irritated by the eighteenth, and your face has already resigned from customer service.

    Then a stranger walking towards me smiled.

    Not the polite, “I know you, don’t I?” smile.

    A proper, uncomplicated smile.

    itI smiled back.

    And then we both continued walking.

    That’s the whole story.

    Which is rather annoying, because now I have to admit that one second of kindness worked better than whatever complicated solution I had been constructing inside my head.

    The Note Meant for Someone Else

    This one was more suspicious.

    I found a handwritten note on a bench.

    No name.

    No envelope.

    Just a few words:

    “You’re doing better than you think.”

    Naturally, my first thought was:

    Well, that’s oddly specific.

    I looked around.

    Nobody was running back dramatically to claim it.

    So I sat there for a while, wondering who had written it and who had lost it.

    Maybe it was meant for a friend.

    Maybe a daughter.

    Maybe someone having a terrible week.

    Or perhaps—just perhaps—it had been abandoned by the only person who needed to read it.

    I took a picture of it.

    I didn’t take the note.

    I had my limits.

    I may be sentimental, but I am not a stationery thief.

    The Old Photograph

    The photograph was old enough to have a life before mine.

    Two people stood in it, smiling at the camera with the effortless confidence of people who had no idea they were about to become strangers in someone’s pocket.

    I stared at them.

    And then, because apparently my brain has no respect for boundaries, I started making up their lives.

    Were they siblings?

    Newly married?

    Best friends?

    Was that trip their happiest memory—or simply the afternoon when someone happened to have a camera?

    I had absolutely no evidence for any of my theories.

    But I had already given them personalities.

    This is the danger of finding photographs belonging to strangers.

    You don’t just find a picture.

    You find yourself writing a sequel to a story you were never invited into.

    The Key Without a Lock

    An old key is a wonderfully unhelpful thing to find.

    Because a coin tells you what it is.

    A key gives you a question.

    I found one lying on the roadside, and naturally spent the next ten minutes imagining what it belonged to.

    A house?

    A cupboard?

    A drawer?

    A secret diary belonging to someone with much more interesting problems than mine?

    There was, of course, no way of knowing.

    The key had clearly retired.

    But it had not resigned from being mysterious.

    I kept thinking about it long after I walked away.

    Somewhere, perhaps, there was a lock that was having an equally confusing day.

    A Child’s Ribbon

    A little ribbon near a school gate once caught my attention.

    Pink, slightly crumpled, with one tiny flower still holding on to it.

    I picked it up and put it on the nearby wall, thinking whoever had lost it might come looking.

    A few minutes later, a little girl came running back.

    She checked the ground, looked under the bench and then suddenly spotted it.

    Her face lit up.

    She dusted it against her dress and tied it back into her hair crookedly, proudly, and without the slightest concern for symmetry.

    I watched her run away smiling.

    Perhaps children lose things easily, but they also know exactly which things matter.

    The Unsent Letter

    I once found an envelope on the street.

    Sealed.

    That was the problem.

    An open letter gives you information.

    A sealed one gives you imagination—and imagination is a terrible thing to hand unsupervised.

    I wondered what was inside.

    A love letter?

    An apology?

    A goodbye?

    A furious paragraph beginning with “I don’t usually do this, but…”?

    I will never know.

    And I didn’t open it.

    Some curiosity deserves to remain curiosity.

    Besides, if the letter was dramatic enough, I was already providing enough drama for it in my head.

    Things I Found on a Street That Has Seen Everything

    Perhaps the most interesting thing about a street is that it never tells us what it has seen.

    It has probably watched a crying child persuade his father into buying that balloon.

    An old woman, thrown out of her own home by the children she once lived only to give to, wondering how she will manage tomorrow.

    A woman who knew how to give, now reluctantly learning how to ask.

    It has watched love stories begin, making even ordinary evenings feel a little more colourful.

    It has watched sons and daughters leave home with bags in their hands and entire futures in their heads, pretending to be brave while someone behind them tries very hard not to cry.

    It has seen people fall.

    And others stop to lift them.

    Goodbyes, celebrations, arguments, laughter, loneliness—and probably more stories than any of us could count.

    The street remembers none of their names.

    It simply watches.

    Day after day.

    Year after year.

    And sometimes I wonder—

    if a street could talk, how many stories would it tell us?

    I have a feeling we’d never get to the end.

    And Then I Found Myself 🦋

    This is the part I didn’t expect.

    Because when I look back at all these things, I realise none of them was really valuable.

    A smile.

    A scrap of paper.

    A photograph.

    A useless key.

    A child’s ribbon.

    An unopened letter.

    A street full of stories.

    None of these things could be put in a display cabinet and labelled My Greatest Discoveries.

    But each one made me stop.

    And perhaps that is what I had lost somewhere along the way—the habit of stopping.

    Of looking.

    Of wondering.

    Of letting an ordinary thing interrupt an otherwise perfectly scheduled day.

    Maybe I didn’t find myself on the street.

    Maybe I simply found the girl who used to notice things.

    And, thankfully, she hadn’t gone very far.

    She was apparently just waiting for me to stop rushing past her.

    And now I’m wondering something else.

    Maybe the interesting question isn’t “What is the best thing you’ve ever found on the street?”

    Maybe it’s:

    What is the most unexpected thing you found when you weren’t looking for anything at all?

    A person? A memory? A little piece of luck? Or perhaps… something that changed the way you saw an ordinary day?

    Tell me. I’m genuinely curious about this one. 🤍

    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • The Kindness We Carry

    The Kindness We Carry

    What’s the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?

    What’s the kindest thing someone has ever done for you?

    Oh, that’s a dangerous question.

    Because how do you choose one moment from a lifetime of little moments that quietly held you together? 😄

    And honestly, my memory has suddenly decided to behave like an old cupboard—everything is in there, but finding the right thing may take some time.

    When I think of kindness, I don’t think only of grand gestures.

    I think of the person who knew I had made a mistake, but chose kindness over an “I told you so.”

    The parent who was disappointed, perhaps, but still made sure I knew I was loved.

    The friend who listened to the same worry again and again—not because they had a new solution, but because they knew I needed someone to listen.

    The teacher who saw a little more in me than I could see in myself.

    The person who stayed beside me when I was busy doubting everything—including myself.

    Sometimes, they didn’t even say much.

    Just a quiet, “You’ll figure it out.”

    And somehow, you did.

    The Kindness That Stays

    Then there are those tiny moments that last far longer than they should.

    You slip, and before embarrassment can even arrive, a hand is already there.

    You’re getting drenched in the rain, and a stranger moves their umbrella a little closer so you can fit under it.

    You look tired, and someone you don’t know asks, “Would you like some water?”

    They don’t know your story.

    They don’t know your name.

    They simply saw another human being who needed a little kindness.

    The Mark Kindness Leaves

    And perhaps that is why the truly kind people stay with us.

    Not because of the magnitude of what they did, but because of what their kindness left behind.

    A little courage.

    A little warmth.

    A little faith in ourselves.

    And sometimes, a little more faith in people.

    There are people whose kindness has quietly become part of who we are.

    We may have forgotten the exact words.

    We may not even remember the date.

    But we remember how we felt standing next to them.

    Safe. Seen. Not alone.

    If we tried to write down every such moment, every person who softened a difficult day, every hand that reached out just in time, every voice that said the right thing when we needed it most…

    we would run out of pages before we ran out of kindness.

    Maybe that is the strange, beautiful thing about kindness.

    The giver may think it was just a moment.

    The receiver may carry it for years.

    And perhaps, without ever knowing it, some of us are already living inside a kindness someone gave us long ago.🦋

    And if there is someone whose kindness still lives quietly in your heart, perhaps today is a good day to remember them and tell us about them. ❤️

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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    © NihshabdThe Silent Stories That Speak to the Soul. All Rights Reserved. 

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  • Same Answer. Still. 😂

    Same Answer. Still. 😂

    If the salary was the same, what job would you be doing right now and why?

    If the salary was the same, what job would you be doing right now and why?

    Apparently, I have already answered this question once—many years ago.

    And guess what?

    Same answer. 😂

    I’d still be a homemaker.

    Not because I had some grand plan of becoming one. Life just… happened. I was working, I was happy working, and then I had children.

    And somehow, the idea of leaving them at home and going to work never sat quite right with me.

    Even with a nanny at home, there was this strange little voice in my head saying, “But you’re their mother. Shouldn’t you be here?”

    I tried negotiating with that voice.

    It won. Every. Single. Time. 😄

    Maybe I wasn’t as strong as I thought I should be. Maybe I should have been more practical, more ambitious, more “I can have it all!”

    Well… apparently I couldn’t.

    Or perhaps I simply didn’t want to.

    Because while I sometimes wonder what my career would look like today, I have absolutely no regrets about the life I chose.

    I was happy when I worked.

    I am ridiculously, embarrassingly, wonderfully happy being a homemaker now.

    So, if the salary was the same?

    I’d still choose this job.

    Although I’d definitely ask for a salary revision this time.

    The cost of living has gone up. The children have grown up. And my unpaid overtime is getting ridiculous. 😂

    What about you? If money wasn’t a factor, would you still choose the life you’re living—or would you finally follow that random dream you’ve been secretly entertaining? 😄

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    Until The Next Whisper,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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    © NihshabdThe Silent Stories That Speak to the Soul. All Rights Reserved.

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    READ MORE : Work-Life Balance, Homemaker Edition

  • Apparently, My Life Forgot to Follow a Plot 🤭📖

    Apparently, My Life Forgot to Follow a Plot 🤭📖

    What’s a book you never finished but still think about?

    The Book I Never Finished… Because I’m Still Living It 🤭📖

    What’s a book you never finished but still think about? 🤔📖

    Well… my life. 🤭😂

    Because apparently, I picked up a book and the author decided to throw every possible genre, emotion, character and plot twist into it.

    One chapter I’m laughing like I’ve completely lost it.
    The next, I’m crying so hard even my tears are asking for a day off. 😭😂

    There’s happiness. There’s heartbreak.
    Love, anger, excitement, fear, frustration, jealousy, hope, confusion, peace, chaos, exhaustion, loneliness… basically, the entire human-emotion department is working overtime. 😂

    Some days I’m full of confidence, ready to conquer the world.

    Other days, I’m like, “Can everyone please leave me alone? I’m busy doing absolutely nothing.” 😌

    There’s comedy, there’s tragedy, there’s romance, there’s mystery…

    And then there are the plot twists.

    Friends becoming enemies.
    Strangers becoming important.
    A shaatir haseena making an appearance.
    A maa ka laadla entering the scene.
    And somewhere in the story, a perfectly normal wife apparently gets promoted to shakki biwi. 👀🤣

    Seriously, who needs fiction when my life is already writing its own screenplay?

    And the funniest part?

    I don’t even know what happens next. 😂

    I started this book, but I have no idea how many chapters are left. There’s no table of contents, no spoilers, and definitely no option to sneak a peek at the last page.

    Just like any good story, I wake up every morning wondering what the next chapter is going to bring.

    Will it be a quiet little chapter?

    A happy one?

    A completely unexpected adventure?

    Or will life casually walk in, throw something completely unplanned at me, and wait for my reaction?

    At this point, I’ve stopped asking “Why me?”

    I’ve upgraded to:

    “Okay… interesting. What happens next?” 😂

    Because just when I think I’ve finally figured out the storyline, life seems to turn another page before I’m ready.

    Maybe there’s a new adventure waiting.

    Maybe an old character suddenly walks back into the story.

    Maybe I discover something I never knew I could do.

    Or maybe tomorrow is just going to be gloriously ordinary—and honestly, I’ll take that too. 😁

    Who knows?

    That’s the fun of an unfinished book.

    I’ve read so many pages already—some I’d happily revisit, some I’d rather skip, and some I’m still trying to understand. 😂

    But the last page?

    Not yet.

    I’m still reading it.
    Still living it.
    Still turning the pages.

    And honestly, I have no idea how it ends.

    But I can promise you one thing—

    the book may be unfinished, but it is definitely not boring. 🤭📖😂

    Now I’m curious… what’s yours? 👀

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    Until The Next Whisper, 

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • The Movie That Made Me Cry Wasn’t a Movie After All 😂

    The Movie That Made Me Cry Wasn’t a Movie After All 😂

    What’s the last movie that made you cry?

    The last movie that made me cry? Hmm… I wish I had a dramatic movie name to share here. 😂 But the truth is, I rarely give movies enough time to reach that emotional moment.

    My Complicated Relationship With Movies 😂

    My relationship with movies is a little complicated. I start a movie with full excitement, popcorn in hand (okay, sometimes only imaginary popcorn 😄), and after 5–10 minutes my attention politely walks out of the room. Sometimes I feel even my TV knows me well enough to switch off itself.

    My Real Netflix Is WordPress and Jetpack

    I’m not really a movie marathon person. These days, my real “Netflix” is WordPress and Jetpack. 😄 I spend my time reading people’s blogs, discovering their stories, knowing about their journeys, and getting lost in the beautiful world of words.

    Honestly, there is something magical about reading a stranger’s thoughts and slowly knowing the person behind those words. Every blog feels like opening a small window into someone’s world.

    Pinterest, Illustrations, and Endless Inspiration

    And when I’m not reading blogs, you’ll probably find me wandering around Pinterest — collecting art inspirations, creating imaginary mood boards, saving beautiful illustrations, and convincing myself that “one more idea” won’t hurt. (Spoiler: it always does. My saved folder strongly disagrees. 😂)

    When My Own Creations Make Me Emotional

    Sometimes my own illustrations make me emotional. Not because they are that extraordinary (okay, let me pretend for a second 😜), but because there is a strange joy in looking at something and thinking, “Wow… this came from my imagination and my hands.” 😂

    Maybe it’s the creator in me, but seeing a blank page turn into something meaningful feels like a tiny miracle every time.

    So, the last movie that made me cry? I honestly don’t remember. But a heartfelt blog, a beautiful illustration, an old song, or a simple story from someone’s life can still stop me for a moment.

    The Real-Life Comedy Drama That Made Me Cry 😋

    And finally, when all these things are not enough to keep me entertained, I have one more source of unlimited drama… my husband. 😋

    I go to him with random thoughts, unnecessary discussions, and my never-ending list of things to share. I keep disturbing him so professionally that sometimes he runs out of patience and I get a well-deserved scolding. 😂

    And guess what? That is when I actually cry. 😭😄

    So technically, the last “movie” that made me cry wasn’t a movie at all. It was a live-action comedy-drama starring me and my husband — no tickets required, daily episodes available, and the main character (me) still hasn’t learned her lesson. 😂

    Maybe I’m not a movie person… maybe I’m a little more of a story-hunter, idea-collector, creator, and occasionally a professional husband-annoyer. ✨🦋😂

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    Until the Next Whisper 🧿💕
    —Rajeshwari

    © Nihshabd The Silent Stories That Speak to the SoulAll Rights Reserved.

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  • What Would Your Future Self Say? A Message From the Future

    What Would Your Future Self Say? A Message From the Future

    If your future self could send you one sentence, what do you hope it would say?

    If My Future Self Could Send Me One Sentence…

    If my future self could send me just one sentence, I think I know what I’d want to hear.

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    I imagine a little butterfly arriving from somewhere in the future, fluttering around me, landing gently on my hand and whispering:

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    “You’re doing good. Don’t give up now.” 🦋

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    I’d probably smile and ask, “Really? Even with all the mess I’m currently making?” 😄

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    And maybe she’d just flutter her wings as if to say, “You’ll see.”

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    Perhaps that is the message we all need sometimes.

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    Keep doing your best without worrying too much about tomorrow. Work hard, keep moving, and don’t give up just because the results are taking their sweet time.

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    As Krishna says in the Bhagavad Gita:

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    “कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन।”

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    You have a right to your actions, but not to the fruits of your actions.

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    Do the work. Give it your best. Let tomorrow take care of itself.

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    And when the doubts get too loud, imagine that little butterfly again.

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    Maybe it knows something we don’t.

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    Maybe it has already seen the ending.

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    And just when we’re about to ask, “Okay, but tell me what happens next…”

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    it flies away.

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    Of course.

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    Future self: excellent at encouragement, absolutely terrible at giving spoilers. 😂🦋

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    What Would You Hope to Hear?

    And now I’m curious…

    If your future self could send you one sentence today, what would you hope it would say?

    Would it be “You made it”, “Keep going”, “Everything worked out”—or something completely different?

    Tell me. If that little butterfly from your future landed on your hand today, what message would you want it to bring? 🦋

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    Until the next whisper,
    —Rajeshwari 
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    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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    A Little Gift for You 🦋

    If these little reflections stayed with you, I’ve put together 6 Small Reflections, a Future Self Questionnaire, and a printable bookmark for you to keep, print, or revisit whenever you need a little pause.

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    And because every little reflection deserves a place to stay… there’s a bookmark for that too. 🦋📖

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    Keep them, print them, write on them—or simply tuck them away for a day when you need a little pause. ❤️

  • Things Children Shouldn’t Have to Learn Alone | Nihshabd

    Things Children Shouldn’t Have to Learn Alone | Nihshabd

    What’s a thing you wish schools actually taught?

    What’s Something You Wish Schools Actually Taught?

    I started thinking about this question and realised something.

    Maybe the things I wish schools taught children aren’t meant for schools alone.

    Because raising a child has never been a one-person job.

    A school can teach equality, respect and consent.

    But children also need to see these things being lived around them. Equality cannot be something we explain in a classroom and forget at home. Respect has to be visible. Consent has to be respected even when the answer is inconvenient.

    Schools can teach children about money—saving, budgeting, financial planning and becoming independent. But real life gives those lessons meaning.

    They can teach children about rejection, failure, jealousy, boundaries and friendships.

    But children also need adults who will listen when these things actually happen to them.

    And this is where I think we sometimes get it wrong.

    We tell children, “If you have a problem, ask for help.”

    But perhaps we should teach them something deeper:

    You don’t have to carry a problem alone.

    Talk to your parent.

    Talk to your teacher.

    Talk to a counsellor.

    Talk to a trusted adult.

    And don’t decide beforehand that they won’t understand.

    They may not understand everything immediately. You may not even know how to explain it properly.

    That’s okay.

    Understanding can take time. Speaking up is what gives it a chance to begin.

    If one person doesn’t understand, find another.

    Keep talking until you find the help you need.

    Especially when it comes to bullying.

    We can say “Zero tolerance for bullying” a hundred times, but the child being bullied may still be terrified of what happens after they speak.

    What if the bully finds out?

    What if things get worse?

    That fear needs to be understood too.

    The child needs to know:

    “You don’t have to face this alone. We’ll help you find a way through it.”

    And perhaps parents and teachers need to listen before they rush to solve.

    Sometimes the child doesn’t need a lecture.

    They need someone to sit beside them and say,

    “Okay. Tell me what happened.”

    Because we are very quick to blame.

    The school blames the child.

    The parent blames the school.

    The child blames someone else.

    Everyone looks for someone to hold responsible.

    Sometimes the real answer is much simpler:

    We all need to look at our part.

    And perhaps that’s what education should teach too.

    Not just how to become successful, but how to become responsible for ourselves and respectful towards others.

    How to respect yourself without disrespecting someone else.

    How to disagree without being cruel.

    How to say no and respect someone else’s no.

    How to make mistakes, accept them and try again.

    How to manage money.

    How to handle rejection.

    How to ask for help.

    And how to understand that one closed door is not the end of the journey.

    There will be stones on the road.

    There will be thorns.

    We cannot remove every one of them.

    But together, we can teach a child how to move a stone, how to ask for help when a thorn hurts, and how to look for another road when the first one doesn’t work.

    People say, “Life will teach you.”

    Of course it will.

    But preparation doesn’t make the road easy.

    It simply makes us less afraid when we reach the difficult parts.

    Takeaway

    Maybe the question isn’t “What should schools teach?”

    Maybe it is:

    “What are we teaching children together?”

    Because a child learns from the classroom, the home, the people around them—and from the way we live the very lessons we expect them to learn.

    We cannot prepare them for every road.
    But we can make sure they know how to walk one.

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    And now I’m curious… what’s one thing you wish someone had taught you before life had to?

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    Until the next whisper,
    —Rajeshwari
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    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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  • The Rarest Skill We Never Learn

    The Rarest Skill We Never Learn

    What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do?

    Loving wholeheartedly… and protecting the trust someone places in you.

    I know, I know… people will say, “That’s not a skill.”

    Oh, I disagree.

    Making promises is easy.

    Keeping them? That’s where the training begins.

    Everyone wants unconditional love until they’re expected to be responsible with it.

    Everyone asks to be trusted until trust starts feeling like accountability.

    I’ve always believed that if I let someone into my heart, they deserve my complete trust. I don’t know how to love in percentages. It’s either 100% or not at all.

    Apparently, that’s not how everyone operates.

    Some people treat trust like a free trial—use it, enjoy it, and cancel it when it’s inconvenient.

    The older I get, the more I realize that the rare skill isn’t finding people who can love you.

    It’s finding people who know how to handle someone’s love without taking it for granted.

    Because love isn’t fragile.

    Trust is.

    And once someone places it in your hands, the real skill is knowing what not to do with it.

    That’s a lesson no school teaches… but life certainly does.

    Somewhere Along the Way, We Forgot

    Maybe that’s the skill we’re slowly forgetting.

    We all crave the same things.

    To be loved without conditions.

    To be trusted without suspicion.

    To be accepted without constantly having to prove our worth.

    Yet, when it’s our turn to offer that same love and trust to someone else, we hesitate. We become cautious. We protect ourselves so much that we sometimes forget to protect the person who trusted us.

    Somewhere along the way, we’ve become experts at expecting…

    …but beginners at giving.

    We ask to be understood before we learn how to understand.

    We ask for loyalty before we become loyal ourselves.

    Maybe that’s why so many relationships today begin with excitement but end with disappointment.

    Not because love disappeared.

    But because responsibility did.

    Love is beautiful.

    Trust makes it meaningful.

    Responsibility is what keeps both alive.

    The World We Could Leave Behind

    I often wonder what our world would look like if we taught children that protecting someone’s trust is just as important as earning it.

    That keeping your word matters.

    That loyalty isn’t old-fashioned.

    That kindness isn’t weakness.

    That another person’s heart is never a place to satisfy your ego.

    Imagine an entire generation growing up believing that love isn’t about possession, trust isn’t about control, and relationships aren’t disposable.

    Imagine if they carried those values everywhere—with their families, their friends, strangers, animals, and even the environment they live in.

    Wouldn’t the world become just a little gentler?

    Maybe This Is the Skill We’re Missing

    Maybe that’s why I still believe loving wholeheartedly is a skill.

    Not because everyone can fall in love…

    But because very few know how to honor the love they’re given.

    The saddest part is that we keep searching for better people, while forgetting to become better people ourselves.

    Maybe if we learned this one simple skill, we wouldn’t just build stronger relationships—we would build a kinder generation.

    A generation that understands that love isn’t just a feeling, trust isn’t just a word, and both are far too precious to be treated as temporary conveniences.

    Maybe that’s the most basic skill of all.

    And perhaps that’s exactly why it has become the rarest.

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    Until the next whisper…

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • Guru Purnima: To Everyone Who Taught Me | Nihshabd

    Guru Purnima: To Everyone Who Taught Me | Nihshabd

    Guru Purnima: To Everyone Who Taught Me Something… Thank You ❤️

    Today is Guru Purnima a day dedicated to expressing gratitude to our gurus, the people who guide us from darkness to light, from confusion to clarity, and from ignorance to wisdom.

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    Traditionally, this day is celebrated to honor our teachers and to remember Maharishi Ved Vyasa, the great sage who compiled the Mahabharata and the Vedas. But over the years, I’ve come to believe that the spirit of Guru Purnima is much bigger than that.

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    It’s a day to pause…

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    Look back…

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    And quietly thank every person who has helped us become who we are.

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    We often imagine a guru as someone standing in front of a classroom or teaching from a sacred book.

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    But life has taught me that gurus don’t always arrive with a title.

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    Sometimes they come as parents.

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    Sometimes as a life partner.

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    Sometimes as our children.

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    Sometimes as friends, strangers, colleagues… or even people who stayed in our lives for only a little while.

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    The moment someone teaches us something that changes us, they become our guru… whether we realize it or not.

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    Some taught us how to love.

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    Some taught us patience.

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    Some gave us courage when we had none.

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    Some believed in us before we believed in ourselves.

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    Some inspired us simply by the way they lived.

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    And yes… a few taught us through heartbreak, disappointment and silence. Their lessons weren’t easy, but they were lessons nonetheless.

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    When I look back at my own journey, I realize that every person I’ve met has left behind a little piece of wisdom. Some added to my happiness. Some strengthened my character. Together, they quietly shaped the person I am still becoming.

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    So today, on Guru Purnima, I simply want to say thank you.

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    Thank you to my parents for my very first lessons in life.

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    Thank you to my family for believing in me.

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    Thank you to my husband for helping me believe in myself.

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    Thank you to my children, who continue to teach me something new every single day.

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    Thank you to my friends, my readers, and every soul who has crossed my path whether for a season or a lifetime.

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    And thank you to those who challenged me. You helped me grow in ways comfort never could.

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    If our paths have crossed, chances are you’ve taught me something… big or small.

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    For that, I am truly grateful.

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    Maybe that’s the real meaning of Guru Purnima

    Not finding one guru, but recognizing the many who have been quietly lighting our path all along.

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    Because learning never stops…

    …and neither does gratitude. 🙏❤️

    With love,
    Rajeshwari
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    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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    P.S. 🤍 If I’ve missed your comments or haven’t been able to visit your blog lately, please know it isn’t because I don’t want to. Life has been keeping me a little occupied. I’ll be back to reading, replying, and cheering you on as soon as I can. Until then, thank you for your patience and for always filling this little corner of Nihshabd with so much love.🙏🏻🦋✨

  • Home Decoration Style: A Cozy Home Filled with Real Life

    Home Decoration Style: A Cozy Home Filled with Real Life

    Beautifully decorated… beautifully lived in. 🤍

    What’s your home decoration style?

    People notice beautiful homes. I notice how they make me feel. That’s probably why my home decoration style has never been about following trends. It’s about creating a home that feels peaceful, welcoming, and says only two simple words…

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    “Welcome home.” 🤍

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    And that’s still exactly my home decoration style.

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    My home is decorated just the way I love it.

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    The only thing that’s changed over the years is… we’ve added a few extra-curricular activities. 😄

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    Life gifted me two footballers. ⚽

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    My boys are absolutely convinced that after Messi and Ronaldo, football is now in very safe hands… theirs! Naturally, our living room has been promoted to an international stadium.

    And the referee?

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    My little Shih Tzu, Kiwi. 🐶

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    The moment a match begins, she’s off…

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    From here to there…

    There to here…

    Back again…

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    I sometimes wonder if she’s secretly waiting for someone to hand her a whistle! 😂

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    When football takes a break, the stadium magically transforms into a Physics and Chemistry lab.

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    School projects appear.

    Chart papers take over the dining table.

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    Glue sticks vanish into thin air…. Swoosh! 🤭

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    And somehow, I become the Chief Helper.

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    The ideas?

    100% theirs.

    The hard work?

    Let’s just say… I have a permanent membership. 🤭

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    Then come the pillow fights.

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    The legendary battles for the TV remote.

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    And by the time everyone is happily exhausted, Kiwi and I exchange one look…

    “Operation Clean-Up?”

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    She immediately resumes her referee duties.

    From here to there…

    There to here. 😂

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    To be fair, my house stays neat, clean, and beautifully arranged from morning till evening.

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    Every cushion behaves.

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    Everything stays exactly where it belongs.

    It’s only later that the house decides…

    “Now let’s make some memories.” 😄

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    By bedtime, it looks delightfully lived in.

    And the next morning?

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    Everything is back in its place, ready for another beautiful day… and another beautiful mess.

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    Because I’ve realized something.

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    A beautiful home decoration style isn’t just about pretty cushions, handmade décor, or perfectly styled shelves.

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    Sometimes it’s footballs rolling across the floor, school projects spread over the table, pillow fights echoing through the hallway, and one tiny furry referee making sure nobody misses the fun.

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    Those moments become part of the décor too.

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    And honestly…

    I wouldn’t change a thing. ❤️

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    Now I’m curious… 🤍

    What’s your home decoration style?

    Are you a Pinterest lover, a minimalist, someone who loves warm and cozy spaces… or does your home also come with a few extra-curricular activities like mine? 😄

    Tell me in the comments I’d love to peek into your little corner of the world. 🏡✨

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    Until the next whisper…

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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