Tag: Self Reflection

  • Some Endings Should Never Be Rewritten

    Some Endings Should Never Be Rewritten

    If you could rewrite any book’s ending, which one would you choose?

    If I could rewrite any book’s ending? Some endings should never be rewritten. Honestly… none.

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    Every book carries a piece of its author’s heart. The ending isn’t just a few final pages; it’s the destination of a journey the writer carefully chose. Some authors spend months, even years, finding the ending that feels right. Who am I to rewrite something they created with so much love, thought, and emotion?

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    I believe change is the only constant in life. But I also believe some things shouldn’t be changed.

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    A story’s ending is one of them.

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    To me, some endings should never be rewritten because changing the ending changes the meaning of every chapter before it.

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    It reminds me of our own lives.

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    If we were given the chance, many of us would rewrite a few chapters erase the painful ones, hold on to the happiest ones a little longer, or choose different paths altogether. But life doesn’t work that way. Every joy, every heartbreak, every mistake, and every triumph becomes a part of who we are. They shape us, make us unique, and become the very reason our story could never belong to anyone else.

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    Perhaps that’s why I don’t want to rewrite a book’s ending either.

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    Some endings make us smile. Some leave us in tears. Some stay with us for years. But they all belong exactly where they are.

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    Once they’re written, they become part of the story’s destiny.

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    And maybe that’s true for our lives as well.

    Not every chapter is easy to read, but every chapter has a purpose.

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    Some stories are simply meant to end the way they do.

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    So no… I wouldn’t rewrite a single ending. Because the moment you change the destination, you don’t just change where the story ends… you change why it was ever told.

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    Some Endings Should Never Be Rewritten… What Do You Think?

    So tell me…

    If you could rewrite the ending of any book, would you? Or would you leave it exactly as it is?

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    Leave your answer in the comments below.

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    Who knows? Your perspective might just become someone else’s favourite chapter. 🤍🦋✨

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    Until the next whisper…
    —Rajeshwari 
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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    To the Hearts Behind the Words 

  • The Promise to Myself I Never Broke

    The Promise to Myself I Never Broke

    What’s a promise you made to yourself that you’ve actually kept?

    The promise to myself I never broke wasn’t about waking up at 5 a.m., sticking to every New Year’s resolution, or finally resisting the urge to buy “just one more” plant.

    We make promises all the time.

    “I’ll start on Monday.”

    “I’ll sleep early.”

    “I’ll stop buying plants because there’s no space left on the balcony.”

    That last one? Let’s not discuss it.

    But the promise to myself I never broke wasn’t about waking up at 5 a.m., drinking more water, or finally resisting the temptation to bring home “just one more” plant.

    The truth is, the hardest promises aren’t the ones we make to other people. They’re the quiet little promises we whisper to ourselves when nobody is listening.

    I’ve broken my fair share of them. Some lasted a week. Some didn’t even survive until lunch.

    But a few… somehow stayed.

    Not because I have extraordinary willpower. (I don’t.)

    But because they quietly became a part of who I am.

    Looking back, I realized the promise to myself I never broke wasn’t really one promise at all. It became a collection of little promises that slowly shaped the person I wanted to be.

    The Promise to Myself I Never Broke Began with Curiosity

    Age has tried very hard to convince me that I should now be an “expert.”

    Curiosity had other plans.

    I still Google random things at midnight.

    I still wonder how flowers know exactly when they bloom.

    I still fall into rabbit holes that begin with “I’ll just check one thing” and somehow end with ancient civilizations, octopuses, or why toast always lands butter-side down.

    Grey hair may arrive without permission.

    A curious mind, however, is entirely optional.

    And I’d like to keep mine.


    I Promised Myself I’d Keep Making Things

    Not everything needs to become a masterpiece.

    Sometimes a few written words are enough.

    Sometimes it’s a sketch.

    Sometimes it’s crochet.

    Sometimes it’s watering a plant that stubbornly pretends it’s on vacation.

    Creating reminds me that I exist for more than ticking boxes on a to-do list.

    The world celebrates finished products.

    I secretly celebrate beginnings.


    I Promised Myself I’d Never Let Age Decide My Joy

    Apparently, growing older comes with an invisible instruction manual.

    “Act your age.”

    Wear sensible shoes.

    Don’t laugh too loudly.

    Don’t dance in the kitchen.

    Who wrote these rules?

    Because I’d like a word.

    If something makes me smile, I’m keeping it.

    My knees occasionally file complaints.

    My heart hasn’t submitted any.


    I Promised Myself I’d Collect Memories, Not Perfect Moments

    Perfect days are suspicious.

    Real life spills tea.

    People arrive late.

    Photos blur.

    Rain ruins plans.

    Cake collapses.

    Someone always blinks.

    And years later…

    Those are exactly the stories everyone laughs about.

    Perfection is forgettable.

    Memories never are.


    I Promised Myself I’d Keep Showing Up

    Not every day feels magical.

    Some mornings, motivation doesn’t even bother sending a text.

    Still…

    You get up.

    You write one paragraph.

    Water one plant.

    Read one page.

    Smile once.

    Tiny victories are terribly underrated.

    Life isn’t won in giant dramatic scenes.

    It’s quietly built in ordinary Tuesdays.


    I Promised Myself I’d Keep a Little Corner of Childhood Alive

    I still get excited over the first rain.

    I still smile when I hear an old song.

    I still stop to admire an unusually shaped cloud.

    And don’t even get me started on books that smell like childhood.

    Growing older is compulsory.

    Growing boring?

    That’s entirely negotiable.


    I Promised Myself I’d Never Rush Through Beautiful Moments

    Life keeps telling us to hurry.

    Faster.

    Quicker.

    What’s next?

    But some things refuse to bloom on our schedule.

    A sunset.

    A heartfelt conversation.

    The fragrance of morning coffee.

    A flower that opens only for a single magical night.

    The best moments in life don’t ask us to speed up.

    They quietly ask us to stay.

    And I’ve learned that staying is sometimes the bravest thing we can do.

    The Promise to Myself I Never Broke: A Collection of Small Promises

    I’ve forgotten birthdays.

    Missed deadlines.

    Burnt toast.

    Killed a few innocent houseplants.

    (They deserved better.)

    But the promise to myself I never broke has survived.

    To stay curious.

    To keep creating.

    To laugh loudly.

    To notice small wonders.

    To make memories.

    To show up.

    To protect the tiny child inside me who still believes ordinary days can suddenly become extraordinary.

    Because the day I stop doing those things…

    I’ll still be growing older.

    But I won’t really be living.

    So if someone ever asks me about the promise to myself I never broke, my answer won’t be just one sentence.

    It will be this way of living.

    And that’s one promise I have no intention of breaking.

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    Until the next whisper…
    —Rajeshwari 
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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    The Heart of Real Friendship ✨

  • The Hard Years: Not the Final Chapter

    The Hard Years: Not the Final Chapter

    Daily writing prompt
    What’s a chapter of your life you’d title "The Hard Years" — and what got you through it?

    The Hard Years: Not the Final Chapter

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    Hard Years don’t always arrive with a warning. They quietly become a chapter of our lives where every day feels a little heavier than the last. If you’ve ever lived through The Hard Years, you know they don’t just change your circumstances—they change you.


    When Life Quietly Changes You

    Have you ever looked back and realised there was a season that quietly changed everything?

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    Not one terrible day.

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    Not one heartbreaking moment.

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    But a chapter that stretched longer than you ever expected.

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    If I had to give it a name, I’d call it The Hard Years.

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    They’re the years when you keep showing up, even when you’re running on empty. You smile because people expect you to. You answer, “I’m fine,” because explaining the truth feels exhausting.

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    From the outside, life looks ordinary.

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    Inside, you’re simply trying to make it through another day.


    The Battles No One Sees

    The hardest battles are rarely visible.

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    Someone is grieving while attending family dinners.

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    Someone is worrying about bills while laughing with friends.

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    Someone is carrying fear behind a perfectly normal conversation.

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    That’s the strange thing about The Hard Years.

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    They teach us how much people can hide behind a smile.

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    Maybe that’s why kindness matters so much.

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    We never really know what chapter someone else is living through.


    Hope Doesn’t Always Make a Grand Entrance

    Looking back, I realised hope never arrived like a miracle.

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    It came quietly.

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    A cup of tea on a difficult evening.

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    A message from someone who somehow knew I needed it.

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    The smell of rain.

    A familiar song.

    A peaceful sunrise.

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    None of these things changed my life overnight.

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    But they reminded me that even difficult seasons have moments worth holding on to.

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    Sometimes, hope isn’t about escaping the darkness.

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    It’s about finding one small reason to keep walking through it.


    The Chapter That Never Got the Last Word

    People often say difficult times make us stronger.

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    I think they make us gentler.

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    They teach us to listen more carefully, judge less quickly, and appreciate ordinary days we once took for granted.

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    Every life has a chapter called The Hard Years.

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    Some chapters last longer than others.

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    Some leave deeper scars.

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    But none of them were ever meant to be the ending.

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    One day, you’ll look back and realise those years didn’t just test your strength.

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    They revealed it.

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    And perhaps that’s the most beautiful plot twist of all.

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    The Hard Years were never the final chapter.

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    They were simply the pages that made the next ones worth reading.


    Until next story,

    Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • The Friendship Terms & Conditions I Forgot to Read

    The Friendship Terms & Conditions I Forgot to Read

    What’s a lesson you’ve learned recently that shifted your perspective?

    The biggest friendship lesson I’ve learned recently? Trust is beautiful, but blind trust can be expensive. Sometimes people leave—not because you failed, but because their chapter in your story was only meant to be that long.

    The Friendship Terms & Conditions I Forgot to Read

    One lesson has quietly changed the way I look at people.

    Apparently, not everyone who says, “Trust me,” comes with a warranty.

    Once upon a time, I believed friendship worked like Wi-Fi.
    If we connected, I stayed connected.
    No questions asked.
    No background check.
    No software updates.

    Spoiler alert:
    That version of me has now been discontinued.

    I used to think trusting someone completely was a beautiful quality.
    It still is.
    Just… not on Day One.

    Life has taught me that some people are meant to stay.
    Some are simply passing through.
    And some arrive only to leave behind a life lesson wrapped in the gift paper of disappointment.

    The funny part?

    When trust breaks, your brain suddenly turns into a full-time detective.

    “Wait… was that a red flag?”

    “Oh… so THAT’S what they meant.”

    “Wonderful. My hindsight has finally joined the conversation.”

    It hurts. Of course it does.
    Because you don’t mourn the friendship alone.
    You also mourn the version of yourself that believed it would last forever.

    But here’s the perspective that changed everything for me…

    Maybe their chapter was never meant to become your whole book.

    Some people are a paragraph.
    Some are a plot twist.
    Some are simply the editor who teaches you what you’ll never publish again.

    And then life does something unexpected.

    It quietly introduces new people.

    People who don’t make you question your worth.
    People who don’t leave you guessing.
    People who don’t heal you with grand speeches, but with consistency, kindness, and the peace they bring into your life.

    So no, a broken friendship isn’t always the ending.

    Sometimes it’s just life clearing a seat for someone better.

    Now I still trust people.

    I just let trust grow at walking speed instead of giving it a Formula One car on the very first day.

    Turns out, that’s much easier on the heart… and far less expensive for the emotional repair department.

    Keep your heart kind… just don’t skip the Terms & Conditions. 😉

    With love,
    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • I’ve Been Eighty Since I Was Eight

    I’ve Been Eighty Since I Was Eight

    What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger?

    I stared at this prompt for a good five minutes, convinced my brain had simply forgotten something.

    Then it hit me.

    I’ve Been Eighty Since I Was Eight. 

    That’s the only answer this prompt gave me.

    Surely there had to be something.

    Bitter gourd? Early mornings? Silence? Staying home? Folding laundry?

    Nope.

    Maybe that was the answer.

    The more I thought about it, the more I realized…

    I couldn’t answer this prompt because the things I love today are the very things I loved as a child.

    I’ve been suspiciously eighty years old since I was eight.

    As a child, I loved hiding in a quiet corner with a notebook, doodling, writing stories, humming old melodies, and creating entire worlds that existed only in my head.

    Apparently, my idea of fun has always been… unconventional.

    And some things, apparently, never left me.

    I still stop to admire butterflies in the garden.

    I still collect pretty leaves because… well, someone has to appreciate them.

    I still get embarrassingly excited when a rainbow appears, as if the sky made it just for me.

    Apparently, I’ve been delightfully easy to please my entire life.

    Some people outgrow these little joys.

    I seem to have renewed my subscription every year.

    I still get ridiculously excited by a blank page.

    I can lose track of time while making something with my hands.

    The smell of books still deserves its own perfume.

    A beautiful sky can stop me mid-sentence.

    A handwritten letter still feels more magical than a text message.

    Growing up didn’t make me fall in love with these things.

    It simply gave me permission to stop apologizing for loving them.

    Maybe that’s adulthood.

    Not discovering new passions…

    But realizing the little “boring” things you loved all along were never boring at all.

    Turns out, my younger self wasn’t strange.

    She simply knew what made her happy.

    Although…

    The more I think about it, the less certain I am.

    Was I really eighty years old when I was eight…

    Or am I still eight at heart?

    Because I still stop for butterflies.

    I still smile at rainbows.

    I still bring home pretty leaves.

    I still think clouds tell stories.

    I still believe the sky puts on a show just because someone remembered to look up.

    Maybe I’ve spent my whole life being an old soul…

    With the heart of an eight-year-old.

    And honestly?

    I hope that never changes.

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    Until the next quiet thought,
    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • Who Inspires Me? | Finding Inspiration in Everyday People

    Who Inspires Me? | Finding Inspiration in Everyday People

    Who are you most inspired by?

    Who Inspires Me?

    People often ask,

    “Who inspires you the most?”

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    As if I keep a secret list

    folded inside my handbag

    between old receipts and emergency chocolates.

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    The truth?

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    I am inspired by everyone.

    Yes, everyone.

    The successful teach me ambition.

    The unsuccessful teach me patience.

    The talkative teach me endurance.

    And the quiet ones teach me

    that silence can win arguments too.

    Some inspire me by what they do.

    Others inspire me by providing

    a very detailed guide on what not to do.

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    Life is generous that way.

    But if there is one group

    that leaves me constantly amazed,

    it is women.

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    Women who fight battles

    while answering phone calls.

    Women who carry worries

    in one hand and grocery bags in the other.

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    Women who hold families together

    using little more than love,

    determination,

    and occasionally a threatening look.

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    They bend,

    they stretch,

    they adapt,

    and somehow keep going.

    Honestly,

    if resilience were an Olympic sport,

    women would politely collect the gold medal,

    organise the ceremony,

    serve snacks,

    and still apologise for not doing enough.

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    So yes,

    I am inspired by everyone.

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    But every day,

    women remind me that strength

    doesn’t always roar.

    Sometimes it smiles,

    ties its hair up,

    and says,

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    “Right then, what’s next?”

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    Stay curious. The next person you meet might just be your next teacher.


    Warmly,
    —Rajeshwari
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • यादें: Memories That Never Truly Leave the Heart

    यादें: Memories That Never Truly Leave the Heart

    यादें हवा की तरह होती हैं…
    दिखती नहीं, मगर मन को छू जाती हैं।

    और कुछ यादें तो इतनी खास होती हैं कि
    बिना बुलाए आ जाती हैं,
    आराम से दिल में बैठ जाती हैं,
    और फिर जाने का नाम ही नहीं लेतीं। 😄

    कभी किसी पुराने गाने के बहाने,
    कभी किसी खुशबू के सहारे,
    और कभी तो बिना किसी वजह के ही…

    कभी चाय की पहली चुस्की में,
    कभी बारिश की हल्की बूँदों में,
    कभी किसी पुराने रास्ते से गुज़रते हुए,
    वो चुपके से साथ चलने लगती हैं। ☕🌧️

    और मज़े की बात तो यह है कि
    जिन बातों को हम भूल चुके होते हैं,
    यादों को वे भी अच्छी तरह याद रहती हैं।
    फिर मुस्कुराकर कहती हैं,
    “सोचा था मुझसे पीछा छुड़ा लोगे?” 😊❤️

    कभी आँखें नम कर जाती हैं,
    कभी होंठों पर मुस्कान सजा जाती हैं,
    पर जाते-जाते हमेशा यही एहसास दे जाती हैं
    कि कुछ लम्हे वक़्त से नहीं,
    दिल से जुड़े होते हैं। 🌸✨


    Memories are like the wind…
    You cannot see them, yet they touch your heart.

    And some memories are so special that
    they arrive uninvited,
    make themselves comfortable in your heart,
    and then refuse to leave. 😄

    Sometimes they return through an old song,
    sometimes through a familiar fragrance,
    and sometimes for no reason at all…

    Sometimes they appear in the first sip of tea,
    sometimes in the gentle rhythm of falling rain,
    and sometimes while walking down a road
    you haven’t visited in years.
    Quietly, they begin walking beside you again. ☕🌧️

    And the funny thing is,
    the moments we think we’ve forgotten,
    memories remember perfectly well.
    Then they smile and seem to ask,
    “Did you really think you could get rid of me?” 😊❤️

    At times they bring tears to our eyes,
    at times they place a smile on our lips,
    but before leaving, they always remind us
    that some moments are connected not by time,
    but by the heart. 🌸✨

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    शब्दों में निःशब्द,
    — राजेश्वरी 
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

  • Why Do We Miss People Who Never Chose Us?

    Why Do We Miss People Who Never Chose Us?

    The Question That Hurts More Than We Admit

    There is a particular kind of sadness that doesn’t come from losing someone.

    It comes from never truly having them in the first place.

    Strangely, some of the people we miss the most were never ours.

    They never chose us.

    They never stayed.

    They never made us a priority.

    Yet years later, their memory can still appear without warning.

    A song.

    A place.

    A familiar phrase.

    And suddenly, they’re back in our thoughts.

    Why?

    Why do we miss people who never chose us?


    Maybe We Don’t Miss Them

    At least, not entirely.

    Sometimes we miss the version of them we created in our minds.

    The version that would finally understand us.

    The version that would stay.

    The version that would choose us if only the timing had been different.

    However, reality and imagination rarely tell the same story.

    Often, we are grieving a possibility rather than a person.

    A future that never happened.

    A conversation that never took place.

    A love story that existed mostly in our hopes.


    The Human Mind Hates Unfinished Stories

    We like endings.

    We like answers.

    We like certainty.

    Unfortunately, life does not always provide those things.

    Some people leave without explanation.

    Others slowly drift away.

    And a few never arrive at all.

    As a result, the mind keeps revisiting what it cannot resolve.

    We replay conversations.

    We imagine different outcomes.

    We wonder what might have happened if we had said one thing differently.

    Not because the person was perfect.

    But because the story never felt complete.


    Rejection Leaves a Different Kind of Scar

    Being unloved hurts.

    Yet being almost loved can hurt even more.

    When someone never chooses us, we often turn the rejection inward.

    We begin asking difficult questions.

    “What was wrong with me?”

    “Why wasn’t I enough?”

    “What did they see in someone else that they didn’t see in me?”

    Gradually, the loss stops being about them.

    It becomes about our worth.

    And that is where the real pain begins.


    The Truth We Rarely Want to Hear

    Sometimes people do not choose us for reasons that have nothing to do with our value.

    They may be looking for something different.

    They may be emotionally unavailable.

    They may simply be on a different path.

    Their choice is not always a verdict on our worth.

    Yet we often treat it as one.

    We carry their decision far longer than they ever carried us.


    What We Actually Miss

    Perhaps we do not miss the person.

    Perhaps we miss the hope.

    The excitement.

    The possibility.

    The feeling that our story might finally be changing.

    And when that possibility disappears, we mourn it.

    Not because it was real.

    But because it felt real.


    Choosing Yourself

    One of the hardest lessons in life is accepting that not everyone will choose us.

    No matter how kind we are.

    No matter how loyal we are.

    No matter how deeply we care.

    However, there is another lesson hidden inside that pain.

    If someone could not choose us, we can still choose ourselves.

    We can stop measuring our worth through someone else’s decision.

    We can stop treating rejection as proof that we are lacking.

    And we can finally stop waiting for validation from people who never intended to give it.


    A Question For You

    Have you ever found yourself missing someone who never truly chose you?

    If so, what do you think you actually missed?

    The person?

    Or the possibility of what could have been?

    I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.

    Because sometimes the stories that hurt us most are the ones that never really began.

    Until the next quiet thought,
    —Rajeshwari
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari. All Rights Reserved

  • Soft Enough to Care, Strong Enough to Endure

    Soft Enough to Care, Strong Enough to Endure

    If humans had taglines, what would yours be?

    If humans had taglines, what would yours be?

    I thought about this question for a while.

    At first, I considered something clever. Then I thought about choosing something funny. After all, who doesn’t love a tagline that makes people smile?

    However, the more I reflected on it, the more I realized that the words that describe me best are simple:

    “Soft enough to care, strong enough to endure.”

    It may not sound dramatic. Yet it feels true.

    Because if life has taught me anything, it is that softness and strength are not opposites. In fact, they often live side by side.

    The Heart That Cares Too Much

    I have always been someone who cares deeply.

    I care about people.

    I care about words.

    I care about feelings.

    Sometimes I even care about conversations long after everyone else has forgotten them.

    If a friend is hurting, I feel it.

    If someone is struggling, I want to help.

    And if I accidentally send a message that sounds slightly awkward, I can replay it in my mind for days like it deserves an award for Best Dramatic Performance.

    It is both a gift and a challenge.

    On one hand, caring allows us to connect with others. It helps us show kindness, compassion, and understanding.

    On the other hand, caring too much can leave us emotionally exhausted.

    Nevertheless, I would rather have a soft heart than a closed one.

    Softness Is Not Weakness

    For a long time, the world seemed to suggest that strength meant being tough all the time.

    Don’t cry.

    Don’t feel too much.

    Don’t let people see your struggles.

    However, real life has shown me something completely different.

    A flower is soft, yet it survives storms.

    A river is gentle, yet it can carve through stone.

    Likewise, a woman can be compassionate and powerful at the same time.

    She can speak kindly while standing firmly in her truth.

    She can forgive without forgetting her worth.

    She can be gentle without allowing herself to be treated poorly.

    That is not weakness.

    That is strength wearing a softer face.

    My Unexpected Superpowers

    When people imagine strength, they often picture grand achievements.

    Meanwhile, I have discovered a different kind of strength.

    The strength to keep going after disappointment.

    The strength to smile through difficult days.

    The strength to begin again when things do not go as planned.

    And, perhaps most impressively, the strength to survive technology updates without accidentally changing every setting on my phone.

    Honestly, that alone deserves recognition.

    Life has also given me another unusual superpower.

    I can encourage other people while still trying to figure things out myself.

    Many women do this every day.

    They carry responsibilities, support loved ones, solve problems, and keep moving forward even when nobody notices how much they are carrying.

    If that is not magic, I do not know what is.

    When My Wings Feel Heavy

    Of course, there are days when I do not feel strong.

    There are days when my confidence decides to disappear.

    There are days when my patience quietly packs its bags and leaves without warning.

    And there are days when even the smallest challenge feels bigger than it should.

    During those moments, I remind myself of something important.

    Strength is not the absence of struggle.

    Strength is continuing despite the struggle.

    A bird does not wait for perfect weather before using its wings.

    Similarly, we do not need perfect circumstances to keep moving forward.

    Sometimes we simply need courage for one more step.

    Then another.

    And another.

    Love Makes Us Stronger

    One lesson I continue to learn is that love creates resilience.

    Love for family.

    Love for friends.

    Love for our dreams.

    And perhaps most importantly, love for ourselves.

    Because when we learn to value ourselves, we stop measuring our worth through the opinions of others.

    Instead, we begin to trust our own voice.

    As a result, we become stronger without becoming harder.

    We become wiser without becoming colder.

    And we become more confident without losing our kindness.

    That balance is beautiful.

    The Magic of Being Human

    I do not possess magical powers.

    I cannot fly.

    I cannot read minds.

    And unfortunately, I cannot make laundry fold itself.

    However, I do believe there is a little magic in every human heart.

    It appears when we choose kindness over bitterness.

    It appears when we offer hope during difficult times.

    It appears when we continue to believe in better days even after disappointment.

    Most importantly, it appears when we refuse to let life’s challenges change the goodness within us.

    That kind of magic matters.

    My Tagline, My Truth

    So if humans had taglines, mine would be:

    “Soft enough to care, strong enough to endure.”

    Because I believe caring is a strength.

    I believe kindness is powerful.

    And I believe resilience does not always have to roar.

    Sometimes it speaks softly.

    Sometimes it laughs through tears.

    Sometimes it spreads slightly crooked wings and keeps flying anyway.

    That is the kind of strength I admire.

    And perhaps, that is the kind of strength I hope to carry through life.

    Not perfect.

    Not fearless.

    Just soft enough to care, and strong enough to endure. ❤️✨

    With love,
    Rajeshwari 🧿💕

  • Practice Makes Perfect? I Respectfully Disagree

    Practice Makes Perfect? I Respectfully Disagree

    They say,

    “Practice makes perfect.”

    .

    I would like to respectfully disagree.

    .

    Still Waiting for the User Manual😌

    I’ve been practicing adulthood
    for quite some time now,

    and I still occasionally walk into a room

    and forget why I went there.

    .

    Mirror vs Camera: An Ongoing Feud 😒

    I’ve practiced taking selfies.

    Hundreds of them.

    Yet somehow,

    the person in the mirror
    and the person in the photo

    continue to be complete strangers.

    .

    Love, Water, Sunlight… and Drama 🎭

    I’ve practiced gardening too.

    The internet says:

    “Give plants sunlight, water, and love.”

    I did.

    The plant responded by dying.

    Meanwhile,

    a neglected plant growing from a crack in the pavement

    is absolutely thriving.

    .

    Explain that.

    .

    One Eye Understands the Assignment🤯

    I’ve practiced drawing.

    Which mostly means

    spending hours creating something beautiful

    and then noticing one tiny mistake

    that suddenly becomes

    the only thing I can see.

    .

    A Pinch of Hope, A Dash of Panic 😱

    I’ve practiced cooking.

    And every time I make a recipe,

    there’s still a brief moment

    when I stare into the pan

    and hope for divine intervention.

    .

    The Perfect Reply Arrives Three Days Later 😪

    I’ve practiced conversations.

    Yet I still remember things

    I should have said

    three days ago.

    Usually while showering.

    When it is far too late.

    .

    The Password and I Are No Longer Speaking 🤭

    I’ve also practiced creating passwords.

    Strong passwords.

    Unique passwords.

    Passwords with capital letters,

    small letters,

    numbers,

    symbols,

    and what feels like

    a personal sacrifice to the technology gods.

    And yet,

    every login still begins with:

    “Incorrect password.”

    Followed by:

    “Forgot Password?”

    which feels less like a question

    and more like a judgment.

    .

    Practice makes perfect?

    Really?

    .

    Because from what I’ve observed,

    practice mostly makes us

    slightly less confused than before.

    And even that’s not guaranteed.

    .

    The funny thing is,

    the people I admire most

    aren’t perfect at all.

    They’re the ones who keep trying.

    The ones who laugh at their mistakes.

    The ones who accidentally send messages too early,

    water the wrong plant,

    burn the toast,

    miss the turn,

    make the typo,

    and somehow continue living

    as if the world hasn’t ended.

    Which, surprisingly,

    it hasn’t.

    .

    So perhaps the proverb needs an update.

    .

    Practice doesn’t make perfect.

    Practice makes stories.

    .

    It gives us the embarrassing moments,

    the unexpected detours,

    the inside jokes,

    the lessons,

    and occasionally,

    if we’re very lucky,

    a little wisdom.

    .

    Because perfection is impressive.

    But imperfection?

    Imperfection is relatable.

    It’s the selfie that took fifty tries.

    The recipe that looked nothing like the picture.

    The plant that survived purely out of stubbornness.

    The sketch with one slightly suspicious-looking hand.

    The password we reset yesterday

    and forgot today.

    And if we’re being honest,

    most of us don’t need another perfect person to admire.

    We just need proof

    that everyone else is making it up as they go along too.

    And after years of practice,

    that’s the one thing I’ve finally become good at:

    .

    Looking perfectly confident…

    while having absolutely no idea what I’m doing. 😄🌷✨

    .

    With love,

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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