If I Had a Time Machine, I’d Tell My Younger Self This

Nihshabd time machine message to my younger self

If you had a time machine and could send just one message to your past self, what would it say?

If I had a time machine, I know exactly where I’d go.

Straight back to my younger self.

I’d find her, sit beside her for a while and say—

“Listen… you’re doing pretty damn well. So please don’t change too much. Stay exactly the way you are—curious, kind, slightly dramatic, a little stubborn, and wonderfully imperfect. You’ll figure things out along the way.”

I’d probably have to stop myself from giving her too many spoilers.
Because knowing me, I’d end up saying, “Oh, and definitely don’t do that…” 😄

But no.

I wouldn’t change her story.

I’d let her make the mistakes, take the wrong turns, laugh too loudly, care too much, start over, surprise herself and grow into whoever she is meant to become.

And just before jumping back into my time machine, I’d turn around and say—

“Keep going. You’re doing better than you think. And one day, the woman you become will look back at you and say… I am proud of you.” 🦋❤️

Now, if WordPress gives me a prompt tomorrow asking me to meet my future self for coffee, I’m officially charging for time-travel services. 😂

And now I’m curious…

If you could step into a time machine and meet your younger self for just five minutes, what would you tell your younger self?

Would you give them advice, a warning, a hug, or simply say, “You’re doing just fine. Keep going.”?

Tell me in the comments. I’d genuinely love to know what your younger self needs to hear from you today. ❤️

Because sometimes, the person we most need to be proud of isn’t the person we’re becoming…

It’s the person who got us here. 🦋✨

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Until the next whispers…
—Rajeshwari 🧿💕

© Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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One little thought often leads to another… come, read on. 🤍

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Dear Teenage Me

Comments

51 responses to “If I Had a Time Machine, I’d Tell My Younger Self This”

  1. Hazel Avatar

    I’m not so sure what I would say to my younger self; hence, I didn’t answer this.🤭 But yours is beautiful.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Haha, I completely understand Hazel! 🤭 Sometimes the younger self is better left without our advice. 😂 Thank you so much for your lovely words! ❤️🦋

      1. Hazel Avatar

        My pleasure, Rajeshwari

  2. SRIKANTH Avatar

    What a beautiful post, Rajeshwari. 🦋❤️

    Your words are such a gentle reminder that we don’t need to have it all figured out—we just need to trust the girl who started it all. I love that you wouldn’t give your younger self spoilers; it shows so much faith in her journey and her strength.

    To answer your question: If I had five minutes with my younger self, I wouldn’t give her a warning either. Instead, I would give her a huge hug and say, “Please stop being so hard on yourself. The people who leave are making room for the ones who will truly stay. And that quiet, persistent voice in your head telling you to keep going? You must listen to it. It will lead you to exactly where you need to be.”

    We are so often in a rush to reach the destination, but your post is a beautiful reminder to celebrate the messy, beautiful girl who did the heavy lifting to get us here. And yes, if WordPress asks for that coffee date tomorrow, definitely start charging—your time-travel advice is pure gold! 😂✨

    Thank you for sharing this. Keep letting your story inspire others. You’re doing a wonderful job. ❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Aww, this is such a beautiful response Srikanth ji. 🤍 And that hug for your younger self says everything. Sometimes he doesn’t need advice or spoilers just a little kindness and reassurance. 🥹🦋 Thank you for sharing this and for your lovely words. And yes, I think it’s time to start charging WordPress for those coffee dates! 😂☕❤️

  3. Kanishka Pathak Avatar

    Soo beautifully written dearest ❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much, Kanishka 🦋✨

  4. Velvet horizon Avatar

    Beautifully written 🥰just be your younger self I like it

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🥰🤍 And yes, sometimes the best advice is simply to let our younger self be herself. 🦋✨

  5. Sheknowsallblog Avatar

    Rajeshwari, I loved how you let her keep her story. How you didn’t rush in with warnings, just with faith. ‘Stay exactly the way you are curious, kind, slightly dramatic, a little stubborn, and wonderfully imperfect.’ That’s not advice. That’s acceptance. And that moment when future-you looks back and says ‘I am proud of you’? That’s the real time travel. Not changing the past, but finally witnessing it with love. 🦋❤️

    Love & Hugs
    Khadija 💕🤗”

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Dear Khadija, this touched my heart so deeply. 🤍 You’ve expressed exactly what I felt while writing it. Sometimes our younger selves don’t need advice they simply need to know that we’re proud of them. 🥹🦋 Love & hugs right back! 🤗

  6. Aptivi Avatar

    Good morning Rajeshwari! ☀️

    Your message you’re telling your younger self is so beautiful! We don’t have to be perfect, but stay exactly who we are. ☺️

    Have a very wonderful weekend!

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Good evening! 🤍Thank you so much for your lovely words. Yes, being imperfectly ourselves is perhaps the most beautiful thing we can be. ☺️🦋 Wishing you a wonderful weekend too! ✨

      1. Aptivi Avatar

        You’re most welcome, Rajeshwari 💜 I totally agree with you 👍
        Thank you so much for your kind wishes! ☺️☀️

  7. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    The most powerful part is the realization that we don’t need to rewrite our past we need to honour the person who lived it, stumbled, learned, and kept going. Sometimes, the greatest gift to our younger self is simply saying: “I am proud of you. Keep going.”

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely Vijay ji. 🤍 Sometimes our younger self doesn’t need answers or a different past just the reassurance that she did enough, and that we’re proud of how far she came. 🦋✨ Thank you for putting it so beautifully. 🤍

  8. khanG Arif Avatar

    This is beautiful, Rajeshwari. 😭 You’ve perfectly captured the balance between wanting to protect our younger selves and letting them fly.

    That line, “the person who got us here,” hit deep. If I had five minutes, I’d just give her a huge hug and say, “The chaos you’re worried about?

    It’s actually shaping you into someone you’ll really like.”
    Thanks for this lovely reminder. 🦋

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍 And I absolutely love what you would tell your younger self “the chaos is shaping you into someone you’ll really like.” 🥹 That’s such a beautiful way to look back at our journey. 🦋 So glad this resonated with you! ✨

      1. khanG Arif Avatar

        Thank you, Rajeshwari. 😍
        That message you shared is pure gold—so gentle and empowering all at once. And hearing you say “the chaos is shaping you into someone you’ll really like” made my heart smile, I’d keep it on my desk forever…
        It’s a reminder I didn’t know I needed today. You have a gift for making people feel seen. Sending you so much love right back! 💛🦋

  9. charles131 Avatar

    *Daily Juice*

    _When life gives  you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand and one reasons to smile and be joyful! Never let life’s circumstances and people define who you are._

    _Their perspective of you belongs to them. Everyone will see you differently, you don’t have to break yourself in any direction to try and appease others. Your expressions, feelings, emotions, the way you talk, and everything else makes you— YOU. Be who who God has made you to be, nothing less._

    _You cannot live a happy life with sad thoughts. Don’t allow someone else’s joy make you sad.That someone else is succeeding doesn’t mean you’re failing! Never find your delight in another’s misfortune. Stop thinking about your problems and start appreciating all the blessings in your life that you take for granted._

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

  10. vermavkv Avatar

    Rajeshwari, this is such a warm, tender, and beautifully honest reflection. ❤️ I especially loved that your time-machine journey isn’t about changing the past, but about meeting your younger self with compassion.

    Your words—“You’re doing better than you think”—are something so many of us need to hear, even today. We are often much harder on our younger selves than we would ever be toward someone we love.

    I also loved your decision not to give her too many spoilers. 😄 The mistakes, wrong turns, laughter, stubbornness, and imperfect choices are all part of the journey that shaped the woman she eventually became.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Verma ji for understanding the heart behind this post. ❤️ I think our younger selves deserve compassion more than advice and maybe a little reassurance that all those messy turns will somehow become part of the story. 😄🦋 So glad the “no spoilers” part resonated with you! 🤗❤️

  11. Goin' the extra...aaamile Avatar

    Look at big Rajeshwari giving chotu Rajeshwari a pat on the back… bohot acchhe 😂😂😂

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Haha, finally! Big Rajeshwari decided it was time to give chotu Rajeshwari some credit. Better late than never! 🤭😂😂😂

  12. Girish Mani Avatar

    What I would tell to my younger self depends on the age of myself at that time…. I know my younger probably will not listen, even if listened, he may not understand what I said…..😅

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      🤭😂😂

  13. Mukund Karadkhedkar Avatar

    Nice post Rajeshwari ji. We share the same views. Even I don’t want to give any advice for change or ask questions. You have put in beautiful words 👍

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Mukund ji! 🤍 It feels wonderful to know we share the same thought. Sometimes, our journey doesn’t need corrections or questions just acceptance of everything that brought us here. 😊🦋 Thank you for your kind words! 🙏

      1. Mukund Karadkhedkar Avatar

        True 🙏 my pleasure 😇

  14. BHARATH K Avatar
    BHARATH K

    Nice blog ma’am If I had a time machine and could meet my younger self for 5 minutes, I would tell my younger self to connect with people more from the start itself, to understand people, but not trust anyone blindly. Don’t change, don’t get influenced. Share things with family, especially with my sister. Enjoy your younger days, don’t be silent all the time be silent when required. Participate in everything; it’s okay if you don’t know something, just go and participate. But stay exactly how you are like be kind, helpful to others, and keep smiling. Respect others, stay calm, etc. Don’t worry about your future, it turned out good just enjoy your younger days.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you 🦋✨

  15. BHARATH K Avatar
    BHARATH K

    If I had a time machine and could meet my younger self for 5 minutes, I would tell my younger self to connect with people more from the start itself, to understand people, but not trust anyone blindly. Don’t change, don’t get influenced. Share things with family, especially with my sister. Enjoy your younger days, don’t be silent all the time be silent when required. Participate in everything; it’s okay if you don’t know something, just go and participate. But stay exactly how you are like be kind, helpful to others, and keep smiling. Respect others, stay calm, etc. Don’t worry about your future, it turned out good just enjoy your younger days.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Bharath🦋✨

  16. BHARATH K Avatar
    BHARATH K

    Nice blog maam.If I had a time machine and could meet my younger self for 5 minutes, I would tell my younger self to connect with people more from the start itself, to understand people, but not trust anyone blindly. Don’t change, don’t get influenced. Share things with family, especially with my sister. Enjoy your younger days, don’t be silent all the time be silent when required. Participate in everything; it’s okay if you don’t know something, just go and participate. But stay exactly how you are like be kind, helpful to others, and keep smiling. Respect others, stay calm, etc. Don’t worry about your future, it turned out good just enjoy your younger days.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      What a beautiful message to your younger self!🤍 I especially loved the balance between “don’t change” and “don’t stay silent.” Sometimes we simply need to live a little more freely, trust wisely, and enjoy the journey without worrying too much about the future. 🦋✨

  17. Nageshwar singh Avatar

    Should we move forward or go back? We should know everything. Your topic is good, but I will have to think a lot to give an answer ✨🌺🦋

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely, some questions are meant to make us pause and think. 😊 Take your time the answer might be hiding somewhere between moving forward and looking back. ✨🌺🦋

  18. Glowith – Glow Every Day, Grow Every Way Avatar

    This felt like a warm hug to our younger selves. 🤍 Beautifully written, Rajeshwari. Sometimes we don’t need to change the past—we just need to look back with more kindness and say, “You were doing your best.” 🦋✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Maha 🤍 That’s exactly what I wanted to say to look back at our younger selves with a little more kindness and a lot less judgment. We really were doing the best we knew. 🦋✨

  19. Puspa Raj Sapkota Avatar

    The image is very good

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much 🙏🏻

  20. samaysakshi Avatar

    Great flights taken into the past. There are so many things one may like to change in the past but it has already happened.
    I know one thing to say that I was a poor student and much well to do now, so if it could be possible to carry money into the past, but for that I would have to take stops in between, when the currency notes changed, and then a thousand rupees of today might have a value of ten thousand in that time and I could have become a rich student and might have helped my father also.
    Just a wild thought.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      That’s such a heartfelt thought. ❤️ If only we could take today’s comfort and resources back to those days, perhaps we could have made life a little easier for our parents. And yes, checking the currency of that time would definitely be part of the plan! 😊🦋✨

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  22. Lalitha Avatar

    “It’s the person who got us here.” It conveys everything R! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Exactly Lalitha! 🤍 Sometimes we don’t need to change the past; we simply want to thank the person who brought us this far. Thank you so much! 🙏🏻🦋✨

  23. Charcoal Powder Shading Avatar

    No words can fall in to express the younger version which can travel so long away so keep going and saying proud of you is a way to love the journey we had. Thank you for sharing your thoughts….

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much for reading and sharing your beautiful thoughts. 🤍 I truly appreciate it! 😊🦋✨

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