Stop Treating Yourself Like You’re Temporary

What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

“Maybe the smallest improvement I can make is treating myself like someone I actually plan to keep for a long time.”

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Which honestly means
drinking more water and having fewer imaginary arguments in the shower.

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Maybe it means sleeping on time
instead of collecting emotional damage and dark circles like limited edition souvenirs.

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Maybe it’s learning that I deserve the same softness
I so casually pour into everyone else
like warm chai on rainy evenings,
like fairy lights glowing quietly in a messy room,
like finding one stubborn little firefly still shining in the dark. ✨

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And perhaps healing isn’t some dramatic movie montage.
Maybe it’s just:
buying yourself flowers for no reason,
laughing at your own jokes,
walking slowly after the rain,
letting your heart do tiny butterfly dances again,
and no longer treating your happiness like a guest who should leave early.

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Because life feels strangely lighter
when you stop behaving like you’re temporary. 🌈

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Maybe that’s the real surprise adulthood never warned us about
that peace does not arrive with fireworks and background music.
Sometimes it arrives quietly…
through clean bedsheets, a favorite song at midnight,
unexpected compliments, sleepy smiles,
and those rare sparkling moments when your heart suddenly whispers,
“wait… life is actually beautiful today.” ✨

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And maybe loving yourself is not always deep or poetic.
Maybe sometimes it’s wonderfully silly
dancing badly while cooking,
watching the rain like it personally wrote a love letter to your soul,
smiling at strangers,
buying snacks as emotional support,
and protecting your inner light like a tiny jar full of fireflies glowing against the dark.

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Because after everything,
I think we all deserve a life that feels a little softer…
a little warmer…
a little more like butterflies, rainbows, laughter, rain-soaked evenings, and coming home to yourself again. 🦋🌧️✨

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A dreamy rainy-evening illustration with fairy lights, butterflies, flowers, and glowing fireflies surrounding the quote “Stop Treating Yourself Like You’re Temporary” with the signature Nihshabd. ✨🌧️🦋
Tiny acts of softness can save a heart quietly learning to stay. 🌈✨

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—Rajeshwari 🧿💕

© Nihshabd by Rajeshwari. All Rights Reserved

Comments

34 responses to “Stop Treating Yourself Like You’re Temporary”

  1. SRIKANTH Avatar

    This is so beautiful, Rajeshwari. 💫

    You’ve turned the smallest, quietest acts of self-care into poetry that speaks straight to the heart. The way you write about drinking more water, saving your softness for yourself, and letting happiness stay a little longer—it feels like a warm hug and a gentle reminder all at once.

    Thank you for putting into words what so many of us forget: that we are not temporary. That healing lives in clean sheets and silly dances and the courage to love ourselves like we actually plan to stay.

    Keep tending to your inner firefly jar. The world needs more of your light. 🦋🌧️✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      I’m truly overwhelmed reading this Srikanth ji. ✨Some comments feel like compliments, but yours felt like understanding the kind that reaches places words usually cannot. The way you held every tiny thought so gently, every little metaphor, every quiet feeling behind the lines… it means more to me than I can ever properly express.
      Thank you for seeing softness as strength, and for reminding me that these small, tender things we do for ourselves really do matter. Your words felt like a warm light resting softly on my heart today. 🦋

  2. Aptivi Avatar
    Aptivi

    Good morning, Rajeshwari! ☺️

    Beautifully written! Everything written here is so true 👍 I especially love the last line. Yeah, we all deserve a life that feels a little softer and warmer. ☺️

    Have a great Wednesday! 😇

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Good morning! ☀️☺️
      Your words made my Wednesday feel even softer already. I’m so happy the last line stayed with you maybe we’re all quietly searching for that same warmth in life. 🌸 Thank you so much, and I hope your day wraps you in gentle moments too. 😇

      1. Aptivi Avatar
        Aptivi

        You are most welcome. You just made my day brighter; that’s so sweet of you. Thank you so much! ☺️

        Also, thank you for liking my posts; I appreciate you 😇

      2. nihshabdblog Avatar

        Aww, that’s so kind of you. ☺️✨
        Honestly, I’m not very tech-savvy… I can only do little things like quietly reading, liking, and appreciating posts that genuinely touch my heart. 🌸😇

      3. Aptivi Avatar
        Aptivi

        Thank you so much for your kind words! ☺️

        It’s OK if you are not tech-savvy. Me too, I appreciate things that genuinely touch me and my heart such as your posts. 🌸 I appreciate your honesty! 🙏

        I’m tech-savvy, though. 😉

      4. nihshabdblog Avatar

        Haha, then we make a good balance. 😉
        You understand technology, and I understand emotions hidden between words. 🌸 Honestly, that kind of connection feels far more beautiful than being tech-savvy alone. 😌✨

      5. Aptivi Avatar
        Aptivi

        Haha. 😆 You’re right! It’s indeed a good balance 😉

        Yeah, I like that kind of connection. It’s indeed far more beautiful! ☺️

        Honestly, I’m tech-savvy since I was five years old.

      6. nihshabdblog Avatar

        Haha, now that makes sense. 😄✨
        No wonder you and technology get along so well. 🌸

      7. Aptivi Avatar
        Aptivi

        Haha. 😄 You are right about that! 👍

        Have a wonderful week! You made my day! ☺️

  3. daneelyunus Avatar

    Nice one

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank youu ☺️🌸 Coming from someone whose words carry so much warmth, that means a lot to me. ✨

      1. daneelyunus Avatar

        Most welcome 😊

  4. vermavkv Avatar

    This is so tender and quietly powerful. 🤍✨

    It reads like a soft conversation with the self after a long, tiring journey — full of humor, warmth, and gentle honesty. The way you weave everyday acts like drinking water, sleeping on time, or buying flowers into emotional healing makes it feel deeply real and accessible, not distant or idealized.

    There’s something beautiful in how you frame self-love not as a grand transformation, but as small, human moments of choosing yourself again and again. It leaves a soft kind of hope behind — the kind that doesn’t shout, just stays.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Verma ji, This is genuinely one of the most beautiful things anyone has ever written about my words. 🤍 You understood the silence between the lines the little aches, the tiny acts of care, and the quiet way a person slowly learns to hold themselves again. And that last line…
      “the kind of hope that doesn’t shout, just stays” it stayed with me too. ✨

      Thank you for reading my heart so gently. 🌸

      1. vermavkv Avatar

        Thank you so much for these deeply kind words. 🤍
        The truth is, writing like yours cannot be read hurriedly—it asks to be felt. There was such tenderness and honesty woven into your words that the emotions between the lines spoke just as beautifully as the lines themselves.

      2. nihshabdblog Avatar

        Some compliments stay with the heart for a long time… this is one of them. Thank you so much Verma ji . 🤍🙏🏻😊

      3. vermavkv Avatar

        That’s really kind of you to say 🤍🙏🏻

        I’m genuinely glad our exchange feels meaningful to you. Thank you for your warmth — it’s always a pleasure talking with you.

  5. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    Rajeshwari ji,
    Your writing carries the warmth of soft rain after a long, exhausting day gentle, calming, and full of light. Truly beautiful and deeply comforting.

    “Stop treating yourself like you’re temporary” is such a powerful reminder. In a world where people so often pour kindness into everyone except themselves, your words softly guide us back to self-love not as something grand or distant, but as something quietly present in small, everyday moments… a favorite song playing at midnight, clean bedsheets, watching the rain, dancing alone in the kitchen, or simply allowing ourselves the grace to stay.
    With appreciation,
    Vijay

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Vijay ji, Your words truly stayed with me. 🤍
      There’s something deeply comforting about being understood so gently, especially when someone connects not just with the words, but with the feeling hidden beneath them.
      The care, warmth, and sincerity in your comment meant more than I can properly express. 🌸
      Thank you for reading my piece with such softness and for taking the time to share something so thoughtful in return.
      Comments like yours make writing feel a little less solitary and a lot more meaningful. ✨

  6. margaretmbate Avatar

    I really like this. So important and well put.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much. 🤍 It means a lot to know the words connected with you in such a meaningful way. 🌸

  7. hmizuki398 Avatar

    Sometimes we forget we are also somebody that needs some love ,attention,spark and even more. But most of them waited till the end for anyone who brought these things into their life and suddenly they noticed that their life fades away.so before it’s late we should enjoy ourselves at that moment

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      So true. 🤍 Sometimes we spend so much time waiting for love and light from others that we forget to give those things to ourselves first. 🌸🤍✨

  8. hmizuki398 Avatar

    Sometimes we forget that we are also somebody that needs some affection,spark,love, attention and more.But we waited till the end that somebody will come in our life and brought these things but before we noticed life fades away.The thing we need at that moment is ourselves.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      So beautifully said ✨ Sometimes the person we keep waiting for is quietly ourselves all along 🌙

  9. jessadaigan Avatar

    I love your writings, very relatable. Thank you for your talent. I hope I can write like this.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      That’s so kind of you 🤍 And I’m sure you can write beautifully too, honest feelings already make the best words. 🌸✨

  10. debdancingstarhawken7 Avatar

    Epic. Healing is appearing in your own life as an equal, not a someone who exists only because of others.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      That’s beautifully said ✨ Real healing begins when you finally see yourself as a whole person too not just someone meant to pour into everyone else.

      1. debdancingstarhawken7 Avatar

        Exactly

  11. KK Avatar
    KK

    Amen! I appreciate your wishes in the end. Sarve bhavantu sukhinah…🙏🌹

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Amen indeed KK🌸🙏 If even one heart feels a little lighter, softer, or less alone after reading… then the words found their home. Sarve bhavantu sukhinah ✨🤍

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