Done Is Better Than Perfect | Overcome Perfectionism

Done Is Better Than Perfect – personal story about overcoming perfectionism through digital illustration

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

Done Is Better Than Perfect: The Advice That Helped Me Overcome Perfectionism

Done is better than perfect is the best piece of advice I have ever received. It completely changed my creative journey and taught me that overcoming perfectionism isn’t about becoming flawless—it’s about having the courage to begin.

I didn’t learn this lesson from a book or a motivational quote.

I learned it from my mentor… and one imperfect illustration that I almost never shared.

Why I Was Afraid to Share My First Digital Illustration✨

If there is one piece of advice that quietly changed my life, it was this:

“Done is better than perfect.”

When I joined my digital fashion illustration course, I had one tiny problem.

Actually… several tiny problems.

I knew hand illustration.

I knew nothing about Photoshop.

And laptops?

Let’s just say, if technology were a language, I’d still be stuck at A for Apple. 😄

Then came our first digital illustration assignment.

After wrestling with layers, tracing, brushes, and enough confusion to question all my life choices, I somehow managed to create my very first digital portrait.

It wasn’t great.

It wasn’t even “almost great.”

Let’s just say… my portrait and the original model looked like they belonged to two completely different families. 😂

I proudly sent it to my mentor.

She looked at it and said,

“Wonderful. Now post it on social media.”

Excuse me… WHAT?

I immediately replied,

“Ma’am, I can’t! People will laugh. They’ll wonder what exactly I’ve illustrated.”

The Advice That Changed My Perspective

That’s when she said something I’ll never forget.

“If you keep waiting for perfection, you’ll miss the entire journey that leads to it.”

She continued,

“Nothing starts perfect. Even ten years from now, you’ll look at your work and find something you’d improve. Perfection isn’t a destination you suddenly reach one day. It’s simply the result of showing up, making mistakes, learning from them, and doing it again.”

And then came the line that stayed with me.

“You can only improve what you’re willing to show.”


This wasn’t perfect. But posting it was the most perfect decision I made.

How I Started Overcoming Perfectionism

That day, I understood something.

Perfection doesn’t build confidence.

Action does.

The funny part?

If I had waited until I felt “good enough,” I’d probably still be staring at that same unfinished illustration… while Photoshop continued staring back at me. 😄

Today, when I look at that first design, I smile.

Not because it’s perfect.

But because it exists.

It reminds me that every piece of work I create today began with one imperfect attempt that I almost never shared.

Why Done Is Better Than Perfect✨

Perfection is a moving target.

No matter how experienced we become, there will always be something we’d like to improve.

The real magic isn’t in creating something perfect.

It’s in creating something at all.

Every finished piece teaches us something.

Every imperfect attempt makes us better.

Every mistake becomes a lesson we couldn’t have learned by waiting.

Perfection never arrived. Progress did.

My Biggest Lesson as a Creative✨

So here’s my little reminder for anyone waiting for the “perfect time.”

Post it.

Write it.

Paint it.

Start it.

Because unfinished dreams hidden in drafts never become success stories.

Sometimes, done really is better than perfect.

And for that lesson, I’ll always be grateful to my mentor, who saw possibility in me long before I could see it in myself.

This illustration didn’t build my confidence.

Sharing it did.

Looking at it today, I don’t remember the fear.

I remember the moment I chose progress over perfection.

Now I’m curious… what’s one thing you’ve been waiting to share because you’re afraid it isn’t perfect yet? I’d love to hear your story. 🤍🦋

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Until the next whisper…
—Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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51 responses to “Done Is Better Than Perfect | Overcome Perfectionism”

  1. SRIKANTH Avatar

    What a beautiful and heartfelt story, Rajeshwari! 🌸

    Thank you for sharing this vulnerable piece of your creative journey. The way you captured that internal battle between fear and courage—between waiting for perfection and daring to begin—really resonated with me.

    Your mentor’s wisdom is priceless: “You can only improve what you’re willing to show.” That line alone is worth framing on every creative’s wall. It’s so easy to let fear of judgment keep our art hidden in drafts and folders, but you’re absolutely right—action builds confidence, not perfection.

    I love that you included the humor, too. The part about your portrait and the model belonging to “two completely different families” made me smile. It’s those imperfect beginnings that make the journey human and relatable.

    To answer your question: I’ve been sitting on a personal writing project for months now, convinced it needs “just one more revision” before anyone sees it. But reading your story reminded me that waiting for perfect is just a fancy way of procrastinating. Maybe it’s time to let it exist, imperfections and all.

    Your illustration may not have been “perfect” by your standards then, but it clearly was the first step toward everything you’ve created since. That’s not failure—that’s progress in its purest form.

    Thank you for the gentle push to choose progress over perfection. You’ve inspired at least one person today to share something imperfect. 🦋🤍

    Keep creating, keep sharing, and keep inspiring others with your courage.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Srikanth ji from the bottom of my heart for this beautiful comment. 🤍 Reading it felt like having a conversation with a friend who truly understood every emotion behind the story.

      The fact that you saw not just the lesson, but also the fear, the humor, and the vulnerability means more to me than I can put into words.

      And if this post gave you the courage to share your writing project, then it has already done more than I ever hoped it would.

      Now I’m genuinely looking forward to reading your writing project. 😊 I’ll be waiting for the message that simply says, “Rajeshwari, I published it.” I have a feeling that day is closer than you think. 🤍

      Thank you again for such a thoughtful and encouraging comment. Your words will stay with me for a long time.🦋✨

  2. Hazel Avatar

    Your digital illustrations look perfect to me. I’m glad you shared them. Amazing, Rajeshwari.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Hazel! 🤍 Your kind words truly mean a lot to me. I’m so happy you liked my illustrations. 😊🦋

      1. Hazel Avatar

        My pleasure, Rajeshwari. I’m looking forward to see more illustrations 🤩🤭

      2. nihshabdblog Avatar

        Aww, thank you so much Hazel! 🤍 That makes me so happy to hear. I promise there are more illustrations on the way, and I can’t wait to share them with you. 😊🦋✨

      3. Hazel Avatar

        Yay! You’re welcome

  3. Glowith – Glow Every Day, Grow Every Way Avatar

    Such a beautiful reminder, Rajeshwari! “You can only improve what you’re willing to show” really stayed with me. 🤍✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Maha! 🤍 I’m so happy that line stayed with you. I hope it gives us both the courage to keep showing up, learning, and creating. 🦋✨

  4. Elizabeth Jurado Avatar

    Moving forward with my editing. I have been stuck.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      I’m so glad to hear that Elizabeth🤍 Keep going you don’t have to make it perfect, just keep moving forward. I’ll be cheering you on! 🦋✨

  5. winningsetbacks Avatar

    I love this post! Truly, done is better than perfect. thanks

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍 It makes me so happy to know this message found its way to your heart. Here’s to celebrating every imperfect beginning. 🦋✨

  6. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    This is such a beautifully honest reflection on the courage to begin.

    What stayed with me most is the thought that “You can only improve what you’re willing to show.” There is profound wisdom in that simple sentence. Perfectionism often disguises itself as excellence, while quietly becoming a fear of being seen before we feel ready.

    Your mentor’s advice carries a deeper truth: perfection is not where growth lives participation does. Every imperfect attempt is a conversation with possibility, and every finished work becomes a stepping stone toward something better.

    Perhaps the real victory was never creating a perfect illustration. It was finding the courage to let an imperfect one be seen and discovering that vulnerability itself can become the beginning of confidence.

    A thoughtful and deeply encouraging piece, Rajeshwari. Sometimes, “done” is not merely better than “perfect”; it is the doorway through which “better” finally enters.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Vijay ji from the bottom of my heart for such a beautiful and thoughtful comment. 🤍 I truly don’t have enough words to express how much it means to me.✨

      Knowing that my story resonated with you so deeply is incredibly special. Your kindness, encouragement, and the way you understood the heart behind my words made me smile and reminded me why I love writing.🤍

      Thank you for taking the time to share something so meaningful with me. Your words are a gift, and I’ll carry them with me for a long time. I’m truly grateful. 🤍🦋✨

  7. Aptivi Avatar

    Good morning, Rajeshwari ☀️

    What a very beautiful reminder that we don’t have to chase perfection. Sometimes, done is better than perfect, as there is always something to improve on. Beautifully written! 👍

    Your drawings are also very great, and it shows you’re talented! 🤩

    Have a very wonderful Friday! ☺️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Good evening! 😊🤍 Thank you so much for your kind and encouraging words. They truly made me smile. I’m so glad the message resonated with you, and I’m happy you enjoyed my illustrations as well. Wishing you a wonderful evening and a beautiful weekend ahead! 🦋✨

      1. Aptivi Avatar

        You’re most welcome, Rajeshwari! ☺️💜 I’m glad my words made you smile ☺️

        Thabk you so much! You too, wishing you a beautiful weekend ahead! 🌟

  8. vermavkv Avatar

    What a wonderfully honest, inspiring, and relatable piece! ✨ I absolutely loved how you turned a simple piece of advice—“Done is better than perfect”—into such a meaningful lesson about courage, creativity, and growth.

    The story of your first digital illustration made the message come alive, especially the humorous struggle with Photoshop! 😄 But the most powerful line for me was:

    “You can only improve what you’re willing to show.”

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Verma ji for your beautiful words! 🤍 It means so much to know that the story resonated with you. I’m really happy that you connected with the heart of the message. Comments like yours make this journey of writing and creating even more meaningful. Thank you for your kindness and encouragement. 🦋✨

  9. umadasila Avatar

    This was such a beautiful reminder that progress begins when we stop waiting for perfection. ✨ The line “You can only improve what you’re willing to show” truly stayed with me. So often, we hide our creations because they don’t match the picture in our minds, forgetting that every masterpiece begins with an imperfect first step. Thank you for sharing this honest journey and the valuable lesson behind it. 🤍

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Uma from the bottom of my heart for your beautiful words. 🤍 It means so much to know that this message resonated with you. Knowing the story and its lesson stayed with you is incredibly special to me.✨

      Thank you for taking the time to share such thoughtful encouragement. It truly made my day, and I’m so grateful to have readers like you. 🦋✨

  10. Roman Fatima Avatar

    Yes absolutely 💯 right that done is better than perfect 👌

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Roman! 🤍 I’m so glad you agree. Here’s to taking the first step and letting progress do the rest. 🦋✨

  11. Girish Mani Avatar

    Don’t need to be perfect, but are you satisfied and felt happy doing it, that’s what matters most…..🙂👍

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely Girish! 😊🤍 At the end of the day, the joy of creating matters far more than chasing perfection. Thank you for sharing such a lovely perspective. 🦋✨

  12. Kevin James Wholley Avatar
    Kevin James Wholley

    Those are pretty good and those tools are hard to learn. Great job.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍 I’m reminding myself every day that done is better than perfect still learning, but finally doing. 🦋✨

  13. ~D~ Avatar
    ~D~

    Recovering perfectionist here 🙋‍♀️ Thanks for the reminder. Great post. 😊

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Haha, welcome to the club! 🙋‍♀️🤍 We’re all recovering, one imperfect step at a time. 😊 Thank you so much I’m so glad the post resonated with you. 🦋✨

  14. moragnoffke Avatar

    Well done, I love what you are saying, that’s my challenge too. 💟🙏

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍 It means a lot to know this resonated with you. 🦋✨

      1. moragnoffke Avatar

        You are welcome 🌺✨

  15. thetravelingtaylorsofficial Avatar
    thetravelingtaylorsofficial

    “My portrait and the model looked like they belonged to two completely different families” made me laugh out loud, and then the lesson landed hard. “You can only improve what you’re willing to show” is going straight into my notes. We feel this every time we hit publish on a travel post that isn’t quite polished, sharing the imperfect version is what actually moves you forward. Thank you for the nudge, Rajeshwari.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much! 🤍 I’m so happy that both the laughter and the lesson stayed with you. 😊

      I love what you said about hitting publish even when a travel post doesn’t feel perfectly polished. That’s exactly how we grow by sharing, learning, and creating anyway. 🤍Thank you for such a thoughtful comment and for the gentle reminder that we’re all on this journey together. 🦋✨

  16. loia Avatar

    Super great advice and well written, love the DI’s too, Super talented you are 💯

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Loia! 🤍 Your sweet words truly made my day. I’m so happy you liked my digital illustrations. Your encouragement means more to me than you know. 🦋✨

      1. loia Avatar

        You’re very welcome, Raj! I’m glad you enjoyed my message. Keep up the great work or just get it done lol 🩶😎

  17. iamfoolz Avatar
    iamfoolz

    Your mentor shared timeless wisdom. Progress begins the moment we stop waiting for perfection.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Yes, that one lesson made a bigger difference than I ever imagined. 🤍🦋✨

      1. iamfoolz Avatar
        iamfoolz

        Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.

  18. Lalitha Avatar

    I read this first in the morning and you know what has stayed with me through the day? The first illustration.

    I found it perfect. Infact when my eyes first landed on it I went 😳😳😲 WOW!! The colour, the outfit, the face, the drape, the shadow, the light… everything just felt right. It is so eye catching. I sat with it for a while. I couldn’t move past it.

    Then I went ahead and read the rest of it. When my eyes landed on the second illustration, my eyes nearly fell out! 😳. I was speechless!. That’s when it hit me! The growth that you write about… I saw it all in the between.

    Now when I see them both it is clear…the distance, the efforts and the growth.

    From someone who wrestled with Photoshop to becoming the one who has illustrated the second portrait, you sure must have had quite a journey with tons of “done is better than perfect.”

    I probably will never be able to forget that first illustration though. There is something so raw and refreshing about it! It’s like first love…you might go on to find your soulmate but that first love always stays in your heart.

    Done is definitely better than perfect. I so resonate with it. I used to be a xerox copy of you… editing everything. Even mistakes that nobody seemed to even notice. But my eye was trained to look for flaws and the quest for something flawless took so much out of me. It took time to let go of this obsession to perfect perfection but I am glad I decided to descend to earth and be more earthly!! No one would understand this post better rest assured! Now I just do… without perfection chewing my mind!! 🤣🤣🤣.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Awww… 🥹❤️ You absolutely made my day Lalitha! Thank you for taking the time to look so closely, read so deeply, and feel every bit of it. 🤍Your “first love” analogy completely melted my heart. 😭 And yes… from wrestling with Photoshop to where I am today, the journey has truly been filled with countless moments of choosing done over perfect. 😂 I’m so happy we’ve both escaped that perfection trap and learned to simply create and enjoy the process. Thank you for this beautiful comment—it means more than you know. Big hug! 🤗🦋✨

  19. sriwrites Avatar

    I absolutely love this story, Rajeshwari! The Photoshop struggle is so real, but see how far you’ve come. ‘Done is better than perfect’ is a lifelong lesson, and you articulated it beautifully.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Aww, thank you! 🥹❤️ Those Photoshop days tested my patience more than my creativity. 😂 Looking back, I’m grateful I kept going instead of waiting to be perfect. So happy this resonated with you! 🤗💕

  20. charles131 Avatar

    Read this if you’ve stopped asking for what you once desperately needed.

    One of the saddest changes in a person isn’t when they stop loving.

    It’s when they stop believing their needs matter.

    At first, they ask.

    They ask for more communication.

    More effort.

    More consistency.

    Not because they’re demanding…

    But because they’re trying to save the relationship.

    As long as someone is still telling you what hurts them…

    There’s still hope.

    Hope that you’ll listen.

    Hope that things can change.

    Hope that they’ll finally feel chosen instead of overlooked.

    But after enough disappointment…

    Something quietly shifts.

    They stop asking.

    Not because the need disappeared…

    But because the answer became predictable.

    They already know what will happen.

    Another excuse.

    Another broken promise.

    Another moment of feeling like they’re asking for too much when they’re really asking for the bare minimum.

    Remember this:

    People don’t usually stop speaking because they no longer care.

    They stop speaking when they no longer believe they’ll be heard.

    And that’s the beginning of emotional detachment.

    From the outside…

    They seem calmer.

    Less emotional.

    Less reactive.

    But inside…

    They’re slowly learning how to stop expecting from the person they once expected everything from.

    The saddest part is that many people mistake that silence for healing.

    It isn’t.

    It’s often someone quietly accepting that they can no longer keep waiting for someone else to become who they’ve needed all along.

    That’s when something powerful happens.

    Instead of begging to be chosen…

    They begin choosing themselves.

    Instead of chasing reassurance…

    They find peace in walking away from what constantly made them question their worth.

    Because the moment someone realizes they deserve consistency…

    They stop settling for occasional effort.

    And once that happens…

    There’s usually no going back.

    💛

    Save this if you’ve learned that healing sometimes begins the moment you stop waiting for someone else to choose you… and finally choose yourself instead.

    #podcast #men #woman #love #GodBlessAmerica

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      🙏🏻🙏🏻

  21. luca zani Avatar

    Hi! I have been thoroughly enjoying your blog. I wanted to share some poems I wrote recently, which you may find interesting! you can read them at https://weurd.substack.com/p/same-roads-new-country. Thank you for your great work!

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Hi! Thank you so much for your kind words and for sharing your poems with me. ❤️ I’d love to read them. I truly appreciate you taking the time to share your work, and I’m so glad you’ve been enjoying my blog. Wishing you lots of inspiration for your writing! 🌸✨

  22. ganga1996 Avatar

    Beautiful and well said! Congratulations on your progress 💕!

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Ganga! 🤍That means a lot to me. 🦋✨

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