Women and the Invisible Walls Built Around Their Dreams

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If you could erase one event from history, what would it be?

The Invisible Walls Built Around Women’s Dreams

If I could erase one event from history, I would erase the moment when society first began limiting women and their dreams…

I would not erase a war.

Not a battle.
Not a revolution.
Not a name carved in gold on the pages of history.

I would erase a moment that looked so small,
so ordinary,
that nobody thought it was worth remembering…

Yet it changed the lives of millions.

The moment someone looked at a little girl holding a dream in her heart and said—

“You are a girl. This is not for you.”

Just a few words.

But some words are not just words…

They become walls.

Invisible walls.

Walls built with fear.
Walls built with expectations.
Walls built with a question asked before every dream:

“Can she really do it?”

The Silent Rules Written for Women

For generations, women have heard those walls speak:

“Girls don’t do this.”
“This is too difficult for you.”
“It’s not safe.”
“Why do you want to go so far?”

And the irony?

The same world that tells women,
“The sky has no limits,”

often tries to decide how high they are allowed to fly.

We teach women how to be careful,
but forget to teach the world how to be responsible.

We tell them to be brave,
but then create a world where their bravery is constantly tested.

And when someone says,

“It’s not safe for women,”

a question remains unanswered…

Why are we asking women to make their dreams smaller instead of making the world safer?

Why should a woman’s freedom be limited because society refuses to remove the obstacles in her path?

Women Were Never the Limitation

Maybe history’s biggest mistake was never that women lacked talent, courage, or dreams.

The mistake was believing that women needed permission to prove their worth.

Because every woman who dared to create, discover, lead, explore, and rise was not fighting her own weakness…

She was fighting a belief that was handed to her before she even learned to speak.

A belief that said:

“Your dreams need approval.”

But dreams were never meant to ask for permission.

If I could erase one moment from history,
I would erase the day the world confused being a woman with being less capable.

Because a woman was never the limitation.

She was never the problem.

She was never the wall.

The wall was built by a mindset that refused to see her possibilities.

And maybe the greatest change in history will come when we stop asking:

“Can women do it?”

And finally start asking:

“Why did we ever doubt that they could?”

What do you think?

If you could erase one moment from history, would you erase a war, a tragedy, or perhaps a quiet moment that changed the way generations thought?

I would love to know your perspective. 🦋✨

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Until the Next Whisper, 🦋💕
—Rajeshwari

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46 responses to “Women and the Invisible Walls Built Around Their Dreams”

  1. Lalitha Avatar

    👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I have nothing to add to what you have already said Rajeshwariji. The questions you have raised have been asked by so many of us. In return we were silenced and killed or worse silenced to obey. Never once did an answer come our way. So it would be better to erase this hegemony from history and give the world a chance to start over. Will it be better? Will we be better? Will we get a chance to just BE without constantly proving, trying and making space for ourselves? Godonlyknows.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Dear Lalitha, 🤍 your words stayed with me. Some questions have lived with humanity for generations, waiting for the day we finally choose compassion over control and understanding over silence.

      I too hope for a world where we don’t have to constantly prove our worth or fight for our place where everyone can simply exist with dignity, freedom, and peace. Thank you for adding such a heartfelt perspective to this conversation. 🌸🦋✨

  2. sriwrites Avatar

    This is a masterpiece of a response to the daily prompt. I love how you looked past the obvious historical tragedies to target the root of a systemic, multi-generational injustice. You are so right, the moment society decided a woman’s dream needed permission was a tragedy that quietly rewrote the destiny of half the planet.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much for your deeply thoughtful words. 🤍 You’ve captured the heart of the piece beautifully. Sometimes the most impactful changes in history are the quiet shifts in beliefs and expectations that shape generations. Recognising these invisible barriers is the first step towards creating a world where dreams are guided by passion, not permission. 🌸🦋✨

  3. Sangeeta Trichal Avatar

    Beautifully written, Rajeshwari! ✨ I’ve always felt ancient ‘rules’ began out of deep reverence—protecting women like goddesses or Mother Nature so they could safely flourish. But your poem brilliantly shows how those well-meaning shields eventually turned into invisible walls. We forgot that Mother Nature isn’t just nurturing; she’s fiercely powerful too. True respect means cherishing that energy without ever taking away her sky. 🦋

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Sangeeta ji for your thoughtful words. 🤍 I love how beautifully you’ve expressed this protection should never become a limitation. True respect lies in honouring women’s strength, wisdom, and individuality while giving them the freedom to explore their own skies. May we continue to transform old boundaries into bridges of understanding and empowerment. 🦋✨

  4. SRIKANTH Avatar

    This is incredibly powerful, Rajeshwari. You’re absolutely right—it’s rarely the loud wars that shape us, but the quiet, invisible rules whispered into our ears. The line ‘We teach women how to be careful, but forget to teach the world how to be responsible’ hit me hard. Thank you for putting words to a feeling so many of us carry. Your words are a reminder that the real revolution is in changing that mindset. 🦋✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Srikanth ji for your beautiful and thoughtful words.🤍 I truly believe that conversations like these are the first steps towards change. When we question the invisible beliefs passed down through generations, we create space for courage, freedom, and new possibilities. Thank you for understanding the heart behind this piece. 🦋✨

  5. Aptivi Avatar

    Good morning, Rajeshwari ☀️

    It’s really such a powerful reflection! When we teach women how to be careful, we also need to teach the world how to be responsible. And being a woman doesn’t mean that your dreams are limited. 👍

    Have a very wonderful Wednesday! ☺️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      “Good evening ! ☀️ Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. 🤍 You are absolutely right — the responsibility should never be on women alone to be careful; it is equally important to build a world where women feel safe to dream, explore, and grow. Here’s to breaking boundaries and creating more freedom for every woman. Wishing you a wonderful Wednesday too! 🌸🦋✨

      1. Aptivi Avatar

        You’re most welcome, Rajeshwari ☺️💜 You’re right, it’s important to build a world where women can dream and grow without any worry and with freedom. Thank you so much! 🌟🌺☺️

  6. iamfoolz Avatar
    iamfoolz

    Well said. Sometimes the biggest changes in history begin with a very small sentence. The sad part is that one persons limitation can become a generations old rule. Thankfully, women have been proving those rules wrong ever since.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely true. 🤍 A single limiting belief can create invisible boundaries for generations, but so can a single act of courage. Every woman who challenges those old rules helps open a door for many others to walk through. 🌸🦋✨

  7. samaysakshi Avatar

    Very nicely written, yes this situation is still there, though we are gradually coming out of it.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much.🤍 Yes, the situation is still there in many ways, but it’s heartening to see the change happening slowly. Every step towards awareness, confidence, and equality matters. 🌸🦋✨

  8. vermavkv Avatar

    The Invisible Walls Built Around Women’s Dreams” is a powerful, thought-provoking, and deeply moving response to the question, “If you could erase one event from history, what would it be?”

    What makes this piece particularly effective is that it does not choose a famous war, political upheaval, or historical tragedy. Instead, it identifies something much quieter but perhaps equally transformative—the moment society began telling women that certain dreams were “not for them.”

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Verma ji for your thoughtful words.🤍 You captured the essence of the piece beautifully. Sometimes the most powerful moments in history are not the ones written in textbooks, but the invisible beliefs and boundaries that shape people’s lives for generations. May we continue to question, unlearn, and create a world where every dream has the freedom to grow. 🌸🦋✨

      1. vermavkv Avatar

        Thank you so much for your beautiful and thoughtful response. 🤍 Your words remind us that history is not merely about events of the past, but also about the beliefs, values, and invisible boundaries that continue to influence generations.

  9. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    Rajeshwari ji, perhaps the most enduring barriers in history were not built of stone, but of beliefs passed quietly from one generation to another. Your thought that society should make the world safer rather than ask women to make their dreams smaller is especially significant.

    Real progress begins when ability is no longer judged through gender, and freedom is no longer treated as permission granted by society. The most meaningful wall to erase may therefore be the mindset that ever made a woman doubt the legitimacy of her own dreams.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Vijay ji for such a thoughtful reflection. 🤍 You’re right the strongest barriers were often invisible, built from beliefs rather than stones. True progress begins when women no longer have to seek permission to dream, but are free to pursue their potential without limits. 🌸🦋✨

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      🤍🦋✨

  10. Shak Avatar

    Powerful and beautifully written! You captured something many women feel but struggle to put into words. We’re taught to move through the world cautiously, while the world is rarely challenged to become safer or more accountable. That message truly stayed with me. Real change begins when we stop placing the burden on women and start transforming the mindset that created it. Thank you for sharing this.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much for your thoughtful words. 🤍 You’ve captured the heart of the message beautifully. Real change begins when responsibility shifts from limiting women’s freedom to creating a world where everyone can live, dream, and grow without fear. ✨✨

  11. Nusrat Khan Avatar

    Beautifully written.The invisible walls that never let a woman grow.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you 🤍Sometimes the invisible walls are the hardest to break, but every woman who dares to dream makes the path wider for others. 🦋✨

  12. Prisca Chinyere Avatar

    Well articulated. You nailed it

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Prisca🦋✨

  13. Nageshwar singh Avatar

    No one knows how to find a way out of all problems better than women. It is clear that you have portrayed this very well. 🦋🦋❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Nageshwari ji 🤍 Women truly have a beautiful strength to find light even in difficult situations. 🦋✨

      1. Nageshwar singh Avatar

        Nageshwari ji 😁😁 अच्छा लगा

      2. nihshabdblog Avatar

        माफ़ करना मुझे, नागेश्वर जी। शायद टाइप करते वक़्त मैंने गलती से ये लिख दिया। 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  14. mylittlehawk Avatar
    mylittlehawk

    If I had to pick one thing from history, I wouldn’t even know where to start because everything is connected, and for every point I’d think “oh, this is what started it”, I find another, older issue that caused that one. And for women, they put all these limits on us, but then it’s our responsibility to change it? And also, they would never let that happen. It’s entertaining, I guess, to watch us flounder in a cage they built around us.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      So true.🤍 Many barriers are created over generations, and breaking them begins with awareness, courage, and the freedom to question. 🦋✨

      1. mylittlehawk Avatar
        mylittlehawk

        And that’s a good start ✨

  15. Rupali Avatar

    Nice.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you, Rupali🤍

  16. charles131 Avatar

    You Cannot Heal While Holding What Cuts You

    Imagine holding a knife in your hand.

    You know it hurts.

    You know the tighter you grip it, the deeper it cuts.

    Yet instead of letting it go, you keep holding on.

    That is what we sometimes do with people, memories, anger, and relationships that have already wounded us.

    We know they are hurting us.

    We know staying attached is making the pain worse.

    But because letting go feels frightening, we keep choosing the familiar pain.

    At some point, healing requires you to open your hand.

    Not because what happened did not matter.

    Not because the wound was not real.

    But because you finally understand that holding onto what hurt you is keeping the injury alive.

    Letting go is not pretending it never happened.

    It is deciding that the pain no longer gets to keep cutting you.

    Sometimes peace begins the moment you stop gripping what you already know is hurting you.

    #RealTalk #Healing #LettingGo #LifeLessons #SelfRespect

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you🙏🏻

  17. Art Hernandez Avatar

    World war 2

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much 🦋✨

  18. Hazel Avatar

    If man can do it, why women can’t? I agree, Rajeshwari. I think there’s still culture and some countries who still implement this kind of rule, making women less capable. Good call!

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely Hazel! 🤍 It’s high time we stopped measuring women’s capabilities through outdated cultural rules. Women don’t need permission to prove what they can do. Thank you for adding your thoughts! 🦋✨

  19. Girish Mani Avatar

    I believe in parallel worlds and in some parallel world, your ideas have actually happened and women are the greatest beings there….don’t you think?

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      I’d love to believe that parallel world exists—and perhaps we’re slowly building it in this one too. 😊🦋✨

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