This is my idea of fun, please be kind

List five things you do for fun.

Fun, for me, is never planned.

It finds me quietly,

like a soft tap on the shoulder

when the heart feels light

and time forgets how to rush.

These are the five small ways

I find my way back to joy.

1. Illustrating (Fashion Illustration)

Fashion illustration is where my imagination learns to dress itself.

Flowing silhouettes, whisper-soft fabrics, intricate details

this is where elegance and emotion meet.

Some days I draw gowns that feel like unfinished dreams.

Some days, lehengas that carry stories in their folds.

Every line is intentional.

Every colour holds a mood.

For me, fashion illustration isn’t about trends or perfection.

It’s about translating feeling into fabric,

and letting creativity walk, twirl,

and breathe on paper.

“A traditional Indian fashion illustration of a woman in a flowing red Anarkali gown with gold details, her mirrored reflection behind her, and the title ‘Nihshabd’ placed softly over the artwork with a Hindi quote on the side.”

2. Writing

Writing is my favourite kind of play.

I collect thoughts the way some people collect souvenirs

small moments, half-felt emotions, quiet observations.

When I write, I’m not trying to impress or polish myself.

I’m simply being honest.

And somehow, that honesty feels like freedom

and freedom feels like fun.

“A cozy writing scene with an open journal, handwritten notes, a pen, coffee cup, dried flowers, and warm sunlight — a soft and calming setup for creative writing.”

“Some thoughts don’t come as words… they arrive as quiet feelings on paper.” ✨🤍

3. Listening to Old Songs

Old songs feel like old friends.

They don’t rush me.

They don’t demand attention.

They sit beside me quietly,

humming memories,

stirring emotions I didn’t know were waiting.

Sometimes I smile.

Sometimes I fall silent.

Both feel perfectly right.

“Vintage record player, Bollywood cassettes, journal, and headphones in a warm nostalgic setting.”
“Old songs don’t play… they return. Like memories humming their way back to the heart.” 🎶✨

4. Crocheting

Crocheting teaches the world to slow down.

One stitch, then another

a soft rhythm my hands understand

even when my mind needs rest.

Watching yarn turn into something real

feels playful and comforting,

a gentle reminder that patience

can be beautiful.

“A cozy close-up of hands crocheting a yellow shawl with soft yarn, scissors, a coffee cup, and warm lighting creating a peaceful, handmade aesthetic.”
“Slow hands, soft yarn, and a quiet rhythm — this is how peace chooses to sit with me.” 🧵💛

5. Visiting New Places

I love visiting new places,

even the ones close to home.

Every place has its own mood,

its own stories,

its own kind of silence.

Walking unfamiliar streets excites me

like opening a new page I haven’t read yet.

I always return with photographs, memories,

and feelings I know will someday

find their way into my writing.

“Every new place leaves a small piece of itself in me — a story, a colour, a feeling.” ✨🌿📖

Fun doesn’t always arrive loudly.

Sometimes it looks like colours,

words,

music,

yarn,

and quiet journeys.

And honestly

if my days are filled with these small joys,

I already feel lucky. 🤍

Comments

17 responses to “This is my idea of fun, please be kind”

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  2. vermavkv Avatar

    This is beautifully gentle and soul-filled. Your idea of fun as something that finds you—quiet, unforced, and intimate—is lovely. Each of the five joys you share feels deeply personal yet universally relatable, woven with warmth, creativity, and mindfulness. The way you connect art, writing, music, craft, and travel to emotion and presence is graceful and calming. A soft, thoughtful celebration of joy in its truest form.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much. Your thoughtful reflection and kindness are deeply appreciated.🤍✨

  3. aparnachillycupcakes Avatar

    That’s nice… and do share your illustrations… loving them already…. And you are such a talented girl ❤️

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Awwww, thank you sooo much, my heart is full already 🥹❤️ Your love and warmth mean the world to me. I’ll definitely share my illustrations very soon🤍✨feeling so encouraged and grateful because of you 🌷🤍✨

  4. Vijay Srivastava Avatar

    This is quietly beautiful.
    So gentle, so honest, it reminds us that joy doesn’t need noise, only presence.

    Your words feel like soft pauses in a rushing world, where creativity, memory, and stillness breathe together.

    Reading this felt like sitting with warmth, grace, and a deeply lived inner world.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much. Your words mean a lot to me. I’m glad the quiet found you too.

  5. Jagannath Avatar

    Beautiful

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much Mr. Jagannath.. I am glad you like it 🤍✨

  6. waakiye Avatar

    Your words were already a nice read,
    But on seeing that you do fashion illustration it seems like the cherry on top…!

    The love that you have for the old songs is shared by me too,
    But they might be in Panjabi more than Hindi…!

    Crocheting and exploring new places seems like such a fun thing in their entirely that it makes you a whole different person…!

    A good read with nice visuals Rajeshwari
    🤍😇

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Aww, thank you so much! 🤍✨Yes, fashion illustration is my profession and my passion it’s where I get to bring my imagination to life. I’m so glad you could relate to my love for old songs, they do have a special magic, don’t they? I also really love Punjabi songs! And exploring new places and crocheting really do add a playful, different side to life… happy you enjoyed reading and the visuals too! 🌸✨

  7. mphtheatregirl Avatar

    If we could write more than 5 things- would add travel (it is always fun to go to a new place or revisit an old place and find new things). Listening to music- my preference is worship/christian and musical theatre.

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Absolutely agree. Travel and music felt impossible to leave out they add so much colour to everyday life.🤍✨

      1. mphtheatregirl Avatar

        Travel doesn’t tend to happen every year, but always glad when it does

      2. nihshabdblog Avatar

        So true 🤍✨
        Travel may not happen every year, but whenever it does, it brings fresh joy, new memories, and a grateful heart. Always worth the wait 🤍✨

  8. Krish Avatar

    Beautiful blog and beautiful article by beautiful heart Rajeshwari. I’ve missed her so much. You’ve taught me wonderful things about being happy in life, about seeing life, about living life. Your article isn’t an article for me. I wrote a poem for you this morning. I’ll post it here. You’ve always been an inspiration to me to see life as beautiful. Yes, I am like you. I am a fan of the emotions, feelings, and love you cherish in life. Your writing isn’t just words, but you are a beautiful creation in yourself. I delve into the depths of your words.When I’m alone, I think of your words and you. A beautiful atmosphere forms around me. This is my way of reviewing. I don’t judge the words, I judge the hands, the heart, and the mind that write them. You are a very, very, very good writer, Rajeshwari. 🥀🥀😊💐

    1. nihshabdblog Avatar

      Thank you so much for taking the time to read and share such thoughtful words. I’m truly grateful for your generosity and sensitivity as a reader. Knowing that my writing resonates with you, and that you connect with it beyond the words themselves, means a great deal to me. I appreciate your warmth, encouragement, and the respect with which you’ve expressed your feelings. Thank you once again for this kindness. 🌸🤍✨

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