Tag: social media

  • My Screen Time Finally Grew Up 

    My Screen Time Finally Grew Up 

    Daily writing prompt
    What app eats up most of your screen time — and do you even feel bad about it?

    My Screen Time Finally Grew Up. If someone had shown me my screen time report a few months ago, WhatsApp and Facebook would have been sitting comfortably at the top. These days, WordPress and Procreate have completely changed that story.

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    My screen time report has had quite the personality makeover.

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    Not too long ago, WhatsApp, Instagram and Facebook proudly competed for the top spot. There was always a message to reply to, a reel to watch, or a post to scroll past while pretending I was “just checking something.”

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    Now they’ve quietly stepped aside.

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    These days, WordPress and Procreate have taken over my screen.

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    WordPress has turned into that strict editor who is never fully satisfied. One moment I’m fixing a typo, the next I’m rewriting an entire paragraph because one sentence suddenly feels “not quite right.” Then comes SEO, categories, tags, featured images… somehow a five-minute edit becomes an hour-long adventure.

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    Procreate isn’t any better.

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    It lures me in with the promise of one tiny change. Just brighten that flower. Adjust one shadow. Make that line a little smoother. Before I know it, I’ve zoomed in so far that I’m perfecting details no one else will probably notice.

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    Together, these two apps have mastered the art of making time disappear.

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    Every Sunday, my screen time report arrives looking slightly judgmental, as if it’s waiting for me to feel guilty.

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    But honestly?

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    I don’t.

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    I still catch myself opening social media out of habit. Old habits don’t disappear overnight. But more often than not, I find myself returning to WordPress to polish another paragraph or opening Procreate to experiment with a new illustration. That’s a habit I’m actually happy to nurture.

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    Because this screen time isn’t leaving me with blurry memories of endless scrolling. It’s leaving me with blog posts I’m proud of, illustrations that make me smile, and ideas that once lived only in my head.

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    So yes, my screen time is still embarrassingly high.

    It’s just no longer spent watching everyone else’s creativity.

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    It’s spent building my own.

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    And somehow, that feels like time very well spent.

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    Until the next whisper…
    —Rajeshwari
    🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari

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  • My Emoji Personality: Cute, Chaotic, and Slightly Concerning 😄🤡

    My Emoji Personality: Cute, Chaotic, and Slightly Concerning 😄🤡

    What are your favorite emojis?

    Oh, I don’t choose emojis… emojis choose me.

    Like 😄 my public personality.
    Sweet, sorted, “everything is fine.” (Everything is not fine.)

    Then there’s 🙃 — for when life flips me but I pretend it’s a personality trait.

    😂 — reserved for things that are not that funny but socially require laughter.

    🤡 — exclusively for myself. Premium membership. No cancellation.

    ✨ — added randomly to make chaos look aesthetic.

    😌 — used after doing absolutely nothing, but feeling like I deserve peace.

    And of course…
    👀 — for silent judgment, curiosity, and accidental stalking.

    Basically, my emoji usage is less “expression” and more “emotional survival toolkit.”

    What about you? Be honest… are you a 🙂 person or a 😭 person?

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    Colorful emoji-themed graphic with playful text “My Emoji Personality: Cute, Chaotic, and Slightly Concerning” and Nihshabd.
    Cute outside, chaotic inside 😄🤡✨

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    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari. All Rightsb Reserved

  • Low Likes, High Life

    Low Likes, High Life

    How do you use social media?

    How do I use social media?

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    Honestly?🤍
    It used to feel like a party…🎉
    now it feels like background noise.🌙

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    There was a time I’d post anything
    random thoughts, small joys, silly moments…😄✨
    like life was meant to be shared in real time.📲

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    Then came the phase where I showed up everywhere
    reels, shorts, LinkedIn…💼📸
    as if consistency was a personality trait 😄
    as if being visible meant being valuable.👀

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    And now?

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    Now I open the app…
    scroll a little…📱
    and quietly leave.🚶‍♀️

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    No urge to post.
    No need to explain.
    No pressure to be seen.🌿

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    Because somewhere along the way,
    I realized
    the best parts of my life
    don’t even make it to my camera roll anymore.📷❌

    They just… stay with me.🤍

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    Unposted.
    Unannounced.
    Unapologetically mine.✨

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    Funny how it changed
    I didn’t lose interest in social media…
    I just fell in love with my real life a little more 💛

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    And that kind of love?
    It doesn’t ask for an audience. 😉

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    A warm sunset scene with a handwritten note reading “Low Likes, High Life” and “Nihshabd,” beside a coffee cup and journal reflecting a calm, private moment.
    Some moments are too beautiful to be posted..they’re meant to be lived. 🤍✨

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    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari. All Rights Reserved