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  • Not What You Do… What You Ignore Makes You Different

    Not What You Do… What You Ignore Makes You Different

    Which aspects do you think makes a person unique?

    I think what makes a person unique is… what they choose to ignore.

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    Not what they love.

    Not what they achieve.

    .

    But the things they see… understand…

    and still go,

    “yeah… not worth my energy.”

    .

    Because let’s be honest

    Some people react to everything.

    Tone, timing, punctuation, the way you said “okay.”

    .

    And some people?

    They read, understand, overthink a little…

    and then just close the chat like,

    “I choose peace… and snacks.”

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    You’ll notice

    Some people can’t ignore a single message

    like it’s their moral responsibility to reply.

    .

    And some…

    will see the notification,

    process it emotionally, mentally, spiritually…

    and still decide:

    “I’ll get back to this in another lifetime.”

    .

    And no, ignoring doesn’t mean they don’t care.

    Sometimes it just means

    they’ve unlocked a level where

    not every situation deserves a reaction,

    not every thought deserves a speech,

    and not every “hmm” needs a paragraph reply.

    .

    Meanwhile

    Some of us will notice everything,

    overthink everything,

    create 3 alternate scenarios…

    .

    and still reply:

    “haha makes sense” 👍

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    Growth? Maybe.

    Confusion? Also yes.

    .

    That’s uniqueness.

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    Not what affects you

    but what doesn’t anymore.

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    Not what you say

    but what you consciously decide

    not to turn into a whole episode.

    .

    And honestly? 😏

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    Some people aren’t unique because of what they go through…

    they’re unique because of what they refuse to entertain.

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    A thoughtful person sitting by a window, quietly looking outside, with the text “Not What You Do… What You Ignore Makes You Different” and “Nihshabd” displayed on the image, reflecting introspection and calm silence.
    What you ignore defines you.

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    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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  • The Most Confident Person I Know Might Surprise You

    The Most Confident Person I Know Might Surprise You

    Who is the most confident person you know?

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    The Most Confident Person I Know

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    Whenever people talk about confidence,

    they usually imagine someone very impressive.

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    A bold voice.

    A fearless personality.

    Someone who walks into a room

    like the room has been waiting

    their entire life for them to arrive.

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    You know the type.

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    The ones who speak first,

    laugh the loudest,

    and somehow always look like

    they know exactly what they are doing.

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    I know someone like that too.

    .

    But here’s the funny part.

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    From the outside,

    you would probably never guess

    they are confident at all.

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    They are quiet.

    .

    They sometimes overthink small things.

    They prefer peaceful corners

    over crowded conversations.

    .

    If there is a spotlight,

    they will politely step aside

    and let someone else stand there.

    .

    Not exactly the poster child

    for confidence.

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    But I’ve watched this person carefully.

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    They don’t try to impress anyone.

    They don’t change themselves

    to fit every room they walk into.

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    They simply show up

    exactly as they are.

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    No performance.

    No unnecessary noise.

    .

    And that, strangely enough,

    is the most confident thing I have ever seen.

    .

    Because real confidence

    isn’t about being the loudest voice.

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    It’s about being comfortable

    with your own quiet.

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    Which leads to a slightly awkward realization.

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    Whenever someone asks me,

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    “Who is the most confident person you know?”

    .

    I pause for a moment.

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    Not because I don’t know the answer.

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    But because it feels a little strange

    to say it out loud.

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    The most confident person I know

    is not the loudest one in the room.

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    It’s the introvert

    standing quietly in the corner,

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    pretending to mind their own business…

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    while secretly knowing

    they’re doing just fine.

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    And yes,

    .

    that person

    is me.🙂

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    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

    © Nihshabd by Rajeshwari. All Rights Reserved