What’s your favorite thing to cook?
People often ask me,
“What’s your favorite thing to cook?”
It sounds so simple.
But every married woman I know
gives that tiny one-second pause
before answering.
Because slowly, gently, without any drama,
her favourites start blending
with the needs, moods, and cravings
of the people she loves.
Mornings begin with
“What goes in my husband’s tiffin today?”
“Kids want something crispy?”
“Someone needs something light?”
And in those everyday moments,
our own choices quietly step back.
Not out of sadness…
just out of love.
We women are a little like salt 🧂
We dissolve.
We balance.
We blend into every flavour.
And sometimes forget
what our own flavour feels like.
But still
cooking remains our calm corner,
our comfort,
our softest way of caring.
My kitchen is where my heart breathes ❤️
Some mornings, I make
idli–vada–sambar,
with both onion chutney and groundnut chutney
simple food,
but so full of warmth.
Vadas and dahi vadas rarely betray me.
They turn out good most days,
so for a few minutes
I proudly behave like a mini MasterChef.
(My kids already call me “Chef Mumma”
especially when they want extra.)
Then there are the special-effort days
chole bhature with imli chutney,
crispy soulful parathas,
and of course,
the slow-cooked love of
rajma-rice.
Each dish fits a mood,
and somehow my heart knows
which day needs which plate.
South Indian meals — my whole kind of comfort 🌿
My everyday favourites:
modda pappu, rasam, poriyal, papad,
and an entire universe of chutneys (pachadi)
tomato, onion, okra, cabbage, Kandi pachadi, gongura, palak,
bottlegourd,sesame and so on…
Simple flavours.
But deeply soothing.
Banana Leaf — tradition, health, and a warm kind of love 🍃
South Indian food truly feels complete
only when served on a banana leaf.
When hot food touches the leaf,
a gentle natural aroma rises
a fragrance that makes the meal feel
a little more comforting.
But there’s more to it.
Banana leaves are rich in polyphenols
(the same antioxidants as green tea),
and when warm dishes are placed on them,
a tiny bit of that goodness
infuses into the food.
A full meal
rice, rasam, sambar, poriyal, chutneys, papad,
and a spoon of warm kheer at the end
feels like a small festival
even on an ordinary day.
Soft. Simple. Beautiful.
Winter… and my Masala Bhat ritual ❄️🍚
Winter in our home begins
the day I cook
Masala Bhat.
Fresh seasonal vegetables,
lightly fried,
mixed with rice
and my special secret masala,
finished with a gentle drizzle of ghee
that fills the whole house
with a warm, cosy fragrance.
And always
spicy tomato–hing chutney on the side.
It’s the kind of meal
that wraps you in comfort…
that makes you pause,
smile softly,
and feel a quiet happiness inside.
A winter hug.
A family ritual.
A little moment of joy.
Food and life… they taste similar 🍽️
A little sweet,
a little tangy,
a little salty,
a little comforting.
Never just one flavour.
And that’s what makes them beautiful.
Maybe we women are like that too
balancing everything
with a soft, steady heart.
So what’s my favourite thing to cook?
Honestly?
Anything that fits the moment.
Anything that suits the season.
Anything that makes the people I love
feel cared for.
And slowly, gently,
I’m learning to keep a small plate
just for myself too.
Because food like life
tastes complete
only when there’s a little bit of my own heart in it. 🌿
