Tag: journey vs destination

  • This Wasn’t on the Map

    You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?

    .

    A misty mountain road with a parked car and bike beside a small chai stall, glowing softly in the cold evening.
    Somewhere between roads and pauses ☕🌫️

    A cross-country trip?

    This should have been an easy question.

    But no… it’s one of those questions where life quietly walks in and complicates everything 😄

    Because technically,

    if I really had to travel across a country,

    I’d just take a plane.

    Window seat. Earphones on.

    And a silent deal with the universe —

    “Just get me there.”

    Simple.

    But what if…

    it’s not just about getting there?

    What if it’s about

    the in-betweens,

    the unexpected turns,

    and those moments that were never part of the plan?

    Suddenly, the plane feels a little too efficient.

    .

    A car makes sense.

    A car is comfort.

    It’s playlists, long roads, and random chai stops ☕

    It’s… control.

    Windows slightly down,

    cool air brushing past your face,

    mountains slowly unfolding like they’ve been waiting.

    You decide when to pause,

    when to move,

    and when to just stare out the window

    like you’re the main character in a film 🎬

    With a car, life feels a little more… sorted.

    .

    But a bike…

    A bike isn’t sorted.

    It’s wind, noise, unpredictability.

    It’s cold air you can almost taste,

    and roads that don’t ask where you’re going.

    It’s “let’s take this turn… just because.”

    On a bike, the destination softens.

    And the journey becomes real.

    A little messy.

    A little magical.

    .

    So what would I choose?

    Honestly…

    I’d start with a car.

    Because I like knowing I’m going somewhere.

    But somewhere along the way,

    when the map starts to matter less,

    and time slows down just enough…

    maybe near a quiet chai stall,

    with the mountains watching silently—

    I’d park the car.

    And take a bike.

    .

    Because maybe…

    some journeys aren’t meant to be comfortable.

    They’re meant to be felt.

    .

    —Rajeshwari 🧿💕

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